Is Waiting the Hardest Part About a Hysterectomy? - Hystersisters Hysterectomy Article

		HysterSisters > Pre-Op Hysterectomy Articles
Is Waiting the Hardest Part About a Hysterectomy?

Is Waiting the Hardest Part About a Hysterectomy?

From the Pre-Op Hysterectomy Articles List

HysterSisters Articles

Options to Hysterectomy
Pre-Op Hysterectomy
Post-Op Hysterectomy
Hormone and Menopause
Intimacy after Hysterectomy
Pelvic Floor
Fitness after Hysterectomy
GYN Cancer
Grief and Loss
Endometriosis
Uterine Fibroids
Hysterectomy Stories
Ask A Doctor

Is waiting for my scheduled hysterectomy the hardest part of this ordeal?

Over and over again, we see newly-crowed, happy Princesses posting to their sister Ladies-in-Waiting the message, “The waiting is the hardest part.” And while no one disputes that waiting for the surgery is difficult for most, especially if you have to wait a long time, is it truly “the hardest” thing of all, for everyone? Let’s give this question consideration here.

Statistically, a hysterectomy is a safe surgery compared to other major operations, with a low rate of serious complications and negative repercussions. On the related topic of HRT - theoretically, HRT “should” replace the hormones the body used to make and result in a woman feeling exactly the same as when she had functioning ovaries. While it’s true that the vast majority of women who have a hysterectomy (whether they retained their ovaries or not) recover wonderfully and ride off happily into the sunset to begin their new-and-improved life, we all know that there are no guarantees with any surgery, which is one of the reasons many of us agonize over making the decision to even have the surgery in the first place.

And, once we have made the decision to proceed, it is typical to fret about any and all aspects of the upcoming hysterectomy - the anesthesia and operation itself, the pain, the recovery, the post-op limitations and restrictions, hormonal upheaval, future sexual function, and countless other concerns. In part, due to all this worrying, the weeks or months waiting for the surgery date to arrive can seem like a torture! To make matters worse, many women are suffering with ever-increasing pain during this pre-op period…perhaps the worst pain they have ever experienced. For these reasons and others, everyone would likely agree that the “waiting” is most definitely not a “good time.”

But does the waiting always end up being the worst part for everyone? Are any of us really able to look into a crystal ball and assure a Lady-in-Waiting that the waiting will be the “worst part” for her? The sad fact of the matter is this: there are thousands of women who wish with every ounce of their being that the waiting would have been the worst part for them.

For those who suffer negative, life-altering complications as a result of having had a hysterectomy, their post-op life is not, and may never be, an improvement from what they experienced prior to having the operation. You will find a small fraction of these women posting in the Aching Hearts, Hormone Jungle, Sexual Dysfunction and Road Less Traveled forums. That relatively tiny percentage of the unfortunate are those that found this site and choose to posts their sagas here. Many times that number of women endure their compromised lives without sharing their story here on hystersisters.com.

In a “semi-perfect world,” both the decision to have a hysterectomy and the results from having it would always end up being a positive benefit for all and the pre-op waiting really would be the worst part for everyone. In a “perfect world,” there would never be a need for anyone to ever have a hysterectomy to begin with.

At the present time, however, there are many unknowns surrounding this surgery, unknowns that are not able to be forecast by anyone, including the happy, newly-crowned Princesses.

This content was written by staff of HysterSisters.com by non-medical professionals based on discussions, resources and input from other patients for the purpose of patient-to-patient support.

Printer Friendly Version

Related Titles

Recommended for Hysterectomy Recovery

The HysterSisters Store has gathered products made specifically for your recovery from surgery. Here are the best sellers we can recommend to help you:

The Great Binder Set - We have made it very easy for you and combined the two best binders and the Silky Sac into a great set to save you money! Our favorite is the Perfect Pocket binder with cold/hot packs!
Deluxe Hyst Prep Set - As you plan, we've gathered the best products into one set for special pricing.
Post-Op Panty - These great panties speed recovery, and reduces scarring. They contain a medical-grade silicone panel over incision to reduce scar's apperance while they provide support to weakened muscles and tissues from surgery. Excellent!
Softest Bra Ever - When you want to wear something, but feel nothing. This is the softest bra ever, in microfiber with no hardware or tags to chafe or dig! The comfort-ribbed underband stays in place gently, so it is perfect for sleeping and lounging.
HysterSisters Accessory Kit - Are you a HysterSisters fan? This set has a fun collection of HysterSisters items.
Very Private Moisture - Once your doctor gives you the green light for intimacy, this is the stuff! This is a best selling product with a high rate of permanent, satisfied, repeat customers! Relieves vaginal dryness instantly, protects tissue & enhances intimacy. "Buy it for the problem, use it for the pleasure."

Is Sex Really the Same After Hysterectomy?

Keep Cervix? Hysterectomy Planning

Find A Doctor Near You

Terry Grogg, M.D. 4461 S Broadway Suite 200 Suite 200 Grove City OH 43123 614-875-0444	Mark Richey, M.D. 1200 Airport Heights Ste 205 Anchorage AK 99508 9072724443	Amie Napier, M.D. Medical City Hospital 7777 Forest Lane Suite A331 Dallas TX 75230 9725667760
Byungyol Chun, M.D. Northern Essex Women's Health 360 Merrimack St Entrance G Lawrence MA 01843 978-557-9060	David Mainman, M.D. Desert Bloom Obstetrics & Gynecology 6452 E. Carondelet Drive, Suite A Tucson AZ 85710 520-885-5300	Stephen Zweibach, M.D. 815 S Parsons Ave Brandon FL 33511 8135712777
Wilfredo R. Ramos, M.D. 5301 F Street, Suite 210 Sacramento CA 95819 (916) 453-3440	Aarathi Cholkeri-Singh, M.D. 120 Osler Drive Ste. 100 Napeville IL 60540 630-428-2229	Kym Boyman, M.D. 1775 Williston Rd., Ste. 110 South Burlington VT 05403 802-735-1252

Receive support and resources for your hysterectomy related needs: