http://www.hystersisters.com/vb2 Hysterectomy resources, information and large online message board community for woman-to-woman support surrounding gynecological issues before and after surgery. Speciality areas include cancer, sexual dysfunction, alternative treatments, hormone issues, fitness and more. en Sat, 18 May 2013 08:11:31 GMT vBulletin 60 http://cdn.hystersisters.com/00A8C1/vb2/images_hyster/misc/rss.jpg http://www.hystersisters.com/vb2 http://www.hystersisters.com/vb2/showthread.php?t=526474&goto=newpost Sat, 18 May 2013 07:44:59 GMT I have read so many times on this board people say cervical cancer never spreads to the ovaries. Either they have read this or their Dr's have told them it is not a place it normally recurs. I never worried about it for this reason as well.

I'm still waiting for my pathology results from my 4/26 surgery. My Dr. told me immediately following surgery that he is quite positive this is a new cancer (he says struck twice by lightening since I'm not that old and it's been only 3 1/2 yrs since the cervical) The pathologists here in AZ just could not determine if my ovarian/fallopian tube cancer is a new cancer or a recurrence from my cervical cancer. Everything was sent to Mass. General to their expert pathologist. He requested specimen slides from my 2009 Cervical Adenocarcinoma surgery after reviewing my recent pathology because he was unable to make a call and is not so sure it's not a recurrence I guess. I am hoping to know soon and find out what's next in my treatment!

I will certainly let everyone here know should this be a recurrence of my cervical cancer to my ovaries and fallopian tubes. ]]> Cancer Concerns - GYN jms462001 http://www.hystersisters.com/vb2/showthread.php?t=526474 http://www.hystersisters.com/vb2/showthread.php?t=526473&goto=newpost Sat, 18 May 2013 06:11:29 GMT I had my Da Vinci surgery one week ago today. I'm 45 with a husband and 2 grown kids so I don't have to worry to much about anyone but myself and getting better. I feel much better the last few days. I kept my ovaries and have never had any night sweats or issues. The things that have really helped me are lots of sleep and my heating pad. Love the heating pad! I do notice my appetite is pretty low and I hate not being able to workout or do things Im used to doing. I am making myself take it easy and ask for others to help me out with things I know Ill be sorry for later if I try to lift etc. I am anxious to drive and hope to next week. Im off pain meds so hopefully I can soon! I have 8 weeks off work with pay so I am going to follow the doctors orders and heal up and enjoy some sunshine. ]]> Post Op Hysterectomy Support Rhondastreet http://www.hystersisters.com/vb2/showthread.php?t=526473 http://www.hystersisters.com/vb2/showthread.php?t=526472&goto=newpost Sat, 18 May 2013 05:48:02 GMT My doctor wants me in surgery on Monday! Well, it is Friday. It's great to have a doc who cares and the surgeon I have been referred to is the trusted doc who performed my d& c 5 years ago. It does not look good. My uterus measures 16 cm and there are "masses". The wierd thing is that I am 57, look and feel great! I do have a thyroid disorder. The postmenopausal bleeding and results of a ultrasound have put me into hyperspace towards a total hysterectomy. Could use some coaching and support! Forget about communication! I am looking at myself in the mirror to confirm this surgery and haven't even thought about my med companion.i have a lot of friends and support but does it really happen so fast? ]]> Pre-Op Hysterectomy Support Francine3 http://www.hystersisters.com/vb2/showthread.php?t=526472 http://www.hystersisters.com/vb2/showthread.php?t=526471&goto=newpost Sat, 18 May 2013 05:01:01 GMT Wishing the Best in Surgery and Recovery to amnew (http://www.hystersisters.com/vb2/member.php?u=343041), bethythecat (http://www.hystersisters.com/vb2/member.php?u=348140), thirdchild46362 (http://www.hystersisters.com/vb2/member.php?u=348158), blkcatt24... Wishing the Best in Surgery and Recovery to

amnew, bethythecat, thirdchild46362, blkcatt24, Lynetted, cooley74, rkt590, MaciMoo, Lisapart, Kimmie70, whatjelly, lorism, Nikita71, Happy2013, Suemc, jlmin44, Cvillatemd, loudog1022, Pr3v5n6, Yogagal2013, usmc_wife32, barbra3, barbie9, Regardingjules, life of pain, stampkrl, snaptwister, Cuppy926, hhesketh1979, Emeraldstone, Neenybelle, KodaiWoman, Ebic3, lainey1016, ashaarden, Orae, Buzzie41, Hoosiers1987, lady_lotus, SarahPeas, armida, Sewmedical, TLH_Hopkins, SILS_Hopkins

Don't forget to pamper the princess! :)

We will see you on the Post-Op Forum when you are home.

Note: We've created a thread for you in the post-op forum based on your hysterectomy date for you to update your progress. However, if you have a question or need for support, be sure and post your own thread to receive support replies.

Another important note: Be a part of our circle of support! Please plan to return to the pre-op forum to answer questions for our pre-op sisters! The pre-op gals need your experience to help them as they plan for their upcoming surgery. ]]> Pre-Op Hysterectomy Support Princess Bea Well http://www.hystersisters.com/vb2/showthread.php?t=526471 http://www.hystersisters.com/vb2/showthread.php?t=526470&goto=newpost Sat, 18 May 2013 04:48:34 GMT Ladies~ I am post op Total Abdominal Hysterectomy, of three years. My surgery was emergency, and a cancer scare. At the time of surgery, I was a young 32 year old lady, who was terrified. I have over come a lot of obstacles in the last three years of my life, including the chronic pain that... Ladies~
I am post op Total Abdominal Hysterectomy, of three years. My surgery was emergency, and a cancer scare. At the time of surgery, I was a young 32 year old lady, who was terrified. I have over come a lot of obstacles in the last three years of my life, including the chronic pain that follows a diagnosis of PolyMyalgia. My question is one of a personal nature, but I need some kind advice on what I should request at my next pelvic exam which is this coming Wed.

Normally I would have my GYN to perform the exam, but I am a nursing student that has no health insurance, so I need to go the cheapest route possible. So for this exam my Primary Physician will be performing the exam. The following questions are ones that I need some advice on.

1. A pelvic exam is VERY painful, as I am not married and have chosen to save myself sexually for marriage. It literally feels like the Doctor is ripping my insides out, and I am in pain for a couple of days after. Any ideas on how to make it a bit more bearable?
2. I have never had a rectal exam done, is it something that I should request? I feel kinda of funny asking for such a private exam to be done, but I need to protect my health.


I now these questions are personal, but I am hoping for some answers from ladies that have walked in my shoes.

Thanks everyone!
Tina Paynter
:new: ]]> Post Op Hysterectomy Support FijiFlower http://www.hystersisters.com/vb2/showthread.php?t=526470 http://www.hystersisters.com/vb2/showthread.php?t=526469&goto=newpost Sat, 18 May 2013 04:11:30 GMT :confused:I had a Tah in January. I am now getting discomfort and pain in my left side near incision. Anyone else get this? It is like a tight pulling pain. :confused: :confused:I had a Tah in January. I am now getting discomfort and pain in my left side near incision. Anyone else get this? It is like a tight pulling pain. :confused: ]]> Post Op Hysterectomy Support Beagle66 http://www.hystersisters.com/vb2/showthread.php?t=526469 http://www.hystersisters.com/vb2/showthread.php?t=526468&goto=newpost Sat, 18 May 2013 04:04:35 GMT At what week post op can we begin Kegel exercises? Thanks! :-) At what week post op can we begin Kegel exercises?

Thanks! :-) ]]> Post Op Hysterectomy Support kiki1973 http://www.hystersisters.com/vb2/showthread.php?t=526468 http://www.hystersisters.com/vb2/showthread.php?t=526467&goto=newpost Sat, 18 May 2013 03:55:03 GMT So I'm not sure but is the hairy face a symptom of low estrogen? I've had it now for a number of months and I know my level was very low... slowly hopefully bringing it back up.

What I'd love to know is am I the only one? It's not dark hair, light blonde (I'm blonde) but getting fairly dense on my neck and cheeks... and forehead.... I've tried an epilator but it's painful and it's growing back faster than I'd planned....

Does the hairy face go away when your estrogen level is optimum? Anyone else have this and solve the issue? Thanks.

P.S. I had this older woman come up to me on the sidewalk in town and stroke my face and say honey, if you just shave this off, it won't come back"... and I wanted to scream and say "of course it will come back lady!"... I'm not in my 80s like you are!" ]]> No Ovaries - Yes HRT - Surgical Menopause Calypso http://www.hystersisters.com/vb2/showthread.php?t=526467 http://www.hystersisters.com/vb2/showthread.php?t=526466&goto=newpost Sat, 18 May 2013 03:48:03 GMT Just got a call tonight that my 83 year old mom is having vaginal laparoscopic surgery in 3 weeks. I am flying from NY to Fl to be with her and help with aftercare. I have to take time away from my job to assist. She is in great health overall, about 15 pounds overweight, but walks daily and has... Just got a call tonight that my 83 year old mom is having vaginal laparoscopic surgery in 3 weeks. I am flying from NY to Fl to be with her and help with aftercare. I have to take time away from my job to assist. She is in great health overall, about 15 pounds overweight, but walks daily and has never been sick a day in her life. All I know is that she started bleeding a month ago and has been having numerous tests that have apparently led to this diagnosis, I just spent Mother's Day weekend with her and she never mentioned a thing! The schedule surgery notes note just says the type of procedure and shes says that the dr didn't like what he saw. I will try to contact him on Monday. What should I expect in terms of her recovery? I would like to fly her back to NY with me so I can take care if her in my home and also get back to work afterwards, even if I have to ave someone stay with her throughout the day. I wonder how long it will be before I can take her on a plane? I don't even know where to start! living so far away and working full time is making this challenging. Any pre or post-op suggestions are welcome. ]]> Pre-Op Hysterectomy Support Lilyalice http://www.hystersisters.com/vb2/showthread.php?t=526466 http://www.hystersisters.com/vb2/showthread.php?t=526465&goto=newpost Sat, 18 May 2013 03:43:22 GMT I need a pain specialist that believes me, an endometriosis specialist who listens. I live in pa. I've seen so many and at the end of my rope. Pain meds don't work ]]> In Search of Info/Support for ..... Renee c-m http://www.hystersisters.com/vb2/showthread.php?t=526465 http://www.hystersisters.com/vb2/showthread.php?t=526464&goto=newpost Sat, 18 May 2013 03:40:17 GMT Hi ladies! This is one happy girl writing this! Went to my 2 week visit and my doctor said she was impressed with how well I'm healing! I even remembered all my questions to ask her. She said she was going to prescribe me a sleep aid for my insomnia although when I went to get it from the pharmacy it wasn't there so I have to call on Monday to see what happened but in the mean time I'm going to use OTC sleep aids. I hope tonight ill be able to sleep! I was also cleared to take baths again! Hello tub! ]]> Post Op Hysterectomy Support Jen2502 http://www.hystersisters.com/vb2/showthread.php?t=526464 http://www.hystersisters.com/vb2/showthread.php?t=526463&goto=newpost Sat, 18 May 2013 03:40:11 GMT Hello all hysterectomy sisters.. I am 10 day post of from a robotic assisted total hysterectomy due to endometriosis. I have 5 small incisions on my abd. I thought I was doing well and improving but I have kinda hit a stand still. I feel very bloated, I am experiencing some sharp pain around the... Hello all hysterectomy sisters.. I am 10 day post of from a robotic assisted total hysterectomy due to endometriosis. I have 5 small incisions on my abd. I thought I was doing well and improving but I have kinda hit a stand still. I feel very bloated, I am experiencing some sharp pain around the area of my right upper incision. Not on the actually incision but just above. Just wondering if any of you out there have had any symptoms like mine or I experiencing normal healing aches and pains. The bloating I feel is not painful but uncomfortable. I have extreme difficulty bending over or sitting. ]]> Post Op Hysterectomy Support Jenniferrenee53 http://www.hystersisters.com/vb2/showthread.php?t=526463 http://www.hystersisters.com/vb2/showthread.php?t=526462&goto=newpost Sat, 18 May 2013 03:35:54 GMT Need some wisdom.
TVH 4-10-13.

Week 1 post op: did everything everyone told me not to do: laundry, cleaned house lightly, dishes, office job half days. no cramping. Energy was a little light, but you'd never know to see me at the office that I'd just had a TVH. I was so proud and impressed those who knew of my SUPER HEALING SKILLS.

Week 2 : back to ht office full-time. boy those stairs to the second floor are tough, but i refused to take the elevator. went to the gym. Twice. Weight lifting once, Zumba the other. Obviously I did everything lightly, but still - two weeks post-op? Oh! and who could forget mymost intelligent moment of the wee? i spent the day DEEP CLEANING my house. What was I (not) thinking?

Week 3: Taking a lot of pain killers and anti-inflam's as I smile and work full days at the office, then business as usual at home, make dinner, do laundry. Clean house as usual. Doing a bang-up job keeping husband happy in the "marital" aspect of our relationship. Went to a weekend festival. Feeling uncharacteristically short-tempered, though.

Week 4: felt so great one day, I decided to MOVE THE COUCH so I could ZUMBA with my teen daughters. suddenly, not so great. (Who would have guessed?). Cramping was sharp and stuck my butt on the couch for the rest of the day. Sleeping twelve and fifteen hour nights. Had almost-sex twice. Picked up my 5-year-old grandson. No more gym. No energy for it. Managing house and office job only.

NOW: Emotions out of control. Can't get out of bed/off the couch. Terrible cramping, and barely enough energy to go to he next room. Sharp pains in the ovary area. No sign of improvement.

So, Dear Sisters, I seek wisdom.

I know. I messed up. I see that now. But with no bleeding, how worried should I be about this body-enforced bed rest and cramping at five weeks? How do I know if I tore something? I am have shooting pains to accompany the cramping, but they're
Infrequent.

What have I done, and how bad did I mess up? Please answer.
JD ]]> Post Op Hysterectomy Support JoyfulDez http://www.hystersisters.com/vb2/showthread.php?t=526462 http://www.hystersisters.com/vb2/showthread.php?t=526461&goto=newpost Sat, 18 May 2013 03:19:37 GMT Hi I am Marquatia I am 37. I was eager to have my surgery until 2 days ago now I am terrified. I have been so depressed. I don't have a support system but this procedure is a must. I have endometriosis.

I am having a TAH. I don't know how my fiancé is going to feel about me afterwards. Especially when the menopause symptoms start. My body image is poor and I am afraid this will get worse.

Please help...:new: ]]> New Member Help Center - Introduce Yourself marquatia37 http://www.hystersisters.com/vb2/showthread.php?t=526461 http://www.hystersisters.com/vb2/showthread.php?t=526460&goto=newpost Sat, 18 May 2013 02:57:11 GMT :new: Hello Everyone I am new here. I have a large fibroid and my DR is going to begin Lupron shots and then a tah with removal of ovaries.Because of high risk for cancer and possible removal of cervix.I started this journey in january because each of my periods was my worst period until i couldnt... :new: Hello Everyone I am new here. I have a large fibroid and my DR is going to begin Lupron shots and then a tah with removal of ovaries.Because of high risk for cancer and possible removal of cervix.I started this journey in january because each of my periods was my worst period until i couldnt tolerate them.i was very anemic and since then i am in the normal range. i am hoping to beef it up for surgery.please let me know if lupron worked for you to shrink fibroids. I am feeling worried and scared. ]]> New Member Help Center - Introduce Yourself allvel http://www.hystersisters.com/vb2/showthread.php?t=526460