Any one having hubby trouble post-op?

well i dont know where to start either this is my first time on here.My
husband isn't trying to understand he said he's tired of hearing about
i know he's stressedobout me beong off without pay but it realy makes
it so much harder to coupe with all of this

It's true that a surgery like this never comes at a good time. How far away is your surgery, do you have a date yet? If it were me, I would just go about making my preparations for what is to come. This is the place to ask your questions and unload your emotions, at least for now. My husband knew that I was nervous about the surgery, but when I spoke to him about it, I just emphasized how nice it would be for both of us for me to get rid of my cruddy periods and all the other problems that were being caused by monster uterus. Husbands get scared enough about this, so try to stay as positive as you can, I think you will find it will help your own outlook and maybe will influence his as well.

i have already hd my surgery and thats what makes it so bad i had it on march13

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Originally Posted by ezz i have already hd my surgery and thats what makes it so bad i had it on march13

If he's not helping you out, then you simply have to be as good to yourself as you can be. Follow your doctor's orders about activity during recovery. Call on any friends or family that you may have. Congrats on being on the other side of this!