TAH: Afraid and needing support

I had the EXACT same thing on 6/25. You're right, the before blood tests and worrying about cyst was draining. They too did a frozen section during surgery. Thank GOD everything turned out clean. I am very happy with my decision to have everything removed. I thought the internal bruising would never go away, however, I am one month today and I have been walking since this past Saturday. I honestly feel the walking has really improved my energy and overall well being. I still have swelly belly (have no idea how long that will last), but love the binder I bought off this site (fits great under clothes). This site is fantastic for venting, confirming every ache/pain you feel is normal and someone else here will COMPLETELY understand what you're going through. Hang in there - I'm sure your cyst pathology will be fine and you will heal fantastic and feel great by Thanksgiving!

Hi there!

Is it possible to have swelly belly before the big day? I've been feeling so swelly and yucky lately--of course I'm also spotting from time to time. My tummy is usually flat as a pancake but not now and it hasn't been for a month or so.

The ovarian cyst is pretty big but could a cyst cause bloating? Is that a goofy question?

I'm going on Saturday to get some clothes for post-op. I'm planning on using the advice from this site to make a few fashion decisions. I'm taking this expert advice on the extra-large drawstring style and the undies stuff. Also I hope to order the band from our sisterhood!

Thanks for your wisdom, sisters dear!
baltchick

Hi baltchick

It's normal to feel overwhelmed and to grieve when you face a hysterectomy, and the cyst just gives you one more thing to worry about

Just take it one day at a time, and know that we are here for you.

:hugs5:

The wait really was the worst....and I had a swelly belly before...still waiting to get my flat tummy back but it's only been 4 weeks.

I came back from the recovery room and told my mom and sister in law how surprised I was that I felt OK...the recovery has been tough in that I'm bored and frustrated but I am 100% glad that I had my surgery....no regrets at all.

As for wardrobe, babydoll dresses are my friend!!

Best of luck to you!!!