Post laparoscopic hysterectomy and burch PROBLEMS

Note: 3/6/13 joint surgery on carpal metacarpal thumb - this was so painful 2 oxycodines every 4 hrs got me happy but did not stop pain
3/19/13 laprascopic ovarian cyst removal, hysterectomy, burch bladder uplift
What else can go wrong? Tried to get off pain pills for 3/19 surgery -nerves in body on high alert couldn't touch me without me jumping. After surgery back on pain pills and constipated - take stool softeners which leads to 4 days of abdominal cramps and diahrea. Two days later intense burning and itching on hands and feet - ER room. Prednisone & Benadryl prescribed Im now off all pain pills and nitrofuritine to eliminate allergic reaction. Two days later back to ER welts, itching all over body &trouble breathing. Longer & higher dosage prednisone. Emotional basket case crying all the time.
Every week we try to take catheter out and I can't urinate myself. Itching and welts slowly reducing using ice packs all over body to reduce pain.
4 weeks post op -CATHETER finally out because of sharp pain. still having trouble urinating. Every hour in bathroom I'm not sure if this is overflow because I don't have much sensation or control. Up 3 - 4 times a night. I m so depressed. Can't stop crying. Losing faith I'll ever be able to pee again. I can't find any information on this online. Can anyone give me hope.

Sorry no information. Just wanted you to know you were heard.

Thanks well I fixed my never can cry problem. Used to have to watch a tear jerker just to release tears a little uptight you might say. Well should have bought flood insurance eyes won't stop leaking