Sex & Mental Issue-help!

My advice is dont be in too much of a hurry but also, dont be too scared. Ask you Dr's guidance. I had a complicated surgery and recovery and Dr asked me to hold off till the 10 week mark. I was still bleeding for 8 weeks so there was no real temptation to go before his clearance. I too was very very nervous about it all. Would it feel the same, shorter, longer, tighter, looser, drier etc. Dr advised personal lubricant might assist so we had it at the ready. In the end, we took it slow and if anything it was better than before. Since then it has been great. In fact more than great as we no longer have to wonder whether I will be up for it or bleeding as usual. The surgery changed our sex lives so much for the better. Its like we were in our 20s again. You'll never never know, if you never give it a go - but do it in your time with your Dr's guidance.