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Angry!
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05-03-2011, 05:35 PM
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HysterSister
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Posts: 66
Hysterectomy: May 9th, 2011
Surgery Type: DvH
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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Angry!
My BF told me he doesn't think he will be with me Monday. I told him he is supposed to be there.
I feel like now as I am preparing to lose my uterus I also need to prepare to lose him. We have been friends for 26 years. In a relationship for 8 months. I need him to be there.
How do I make him understand how much I need him??
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05-03-2011, 05:46 PM
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HysterSister
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Posts: 35
Hysterectomy: June 8th, 2011
Surgery Type: TLH
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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Re: Angry!
O honey, I'm sorry! I just found out there's a site called Mister Hyster Sisters! Maybe see if you can get him to check that out? Maybe it will help him realize how much you need his support! Just curious, why is he not able to be there? You really need to express how much it truely means to you for him to be there.
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05-03-2011, 05:50 PM
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Posts: 9
Hysterectomy: April 18th, 2011
Surgery Type: SAH
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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Re: Angry!
He may be scared...and not want to see you in pain. To be honest...my DH was there for the surgery and a few hours after but it's all a blur...I took advantage of the pain meds and slept a lot. Besides, there wasn't much he could do for me initially....I relied on the devoted nurses. He has however been wonderful at home taking care of everything..and lining up folks to visit and bring meals. It will be ok...hang in there.
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05-03-2011, 06:22 PM
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HysterSister
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Posts: 202
Hysterectomy: October 7th, 2011
Surgery Type: TVH
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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Re: Angry!
My DH is not coming with me to the hospital. My mom is taking me. Not because he doesn't want to be there, but because he is a self-employed truck driver and we honestly can't afford for him not to work. I figure that I'll be out of it most of the day and plan on staying overnight one night to make sure my pain is managed. He will be home with me on the weekend and I have let him know what I expect of him, to do EVERYTHING, LOL. I'm sorry your BF is changing his mind. It's different if he committed to being there and is now letting you down. I'm sorry.
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