Pre-hysterectomy surgery advice

I had a LAVH on 4/28. So far my recovery has been pretty smooth. The best advice I can give would be; 1. Start taking a stool softener at least a week before surgery. Constipation is a big issue after surgery. Especially if you take pain meds. I took the stool softener once daily starting a week prior and then took the stool softener as well as a gas relief pill twice daily after surgery. It was still a rough road for the first few days but it definitely helped. I am still taking the stool softener once daily and the gas relief as I need it. It keeps my body happy. 2. Take the pain meds if you need them but ONLY if you need them. They can cause constipation and the pain and pressure can be unbearable at times. Drink plenty of water and just relax. Your body needs rest and relaxation. 3. The heating pad can be your new best friend! 4. Spotting is normal. So is a feeling of pressure in the vagina. It almost feels like something is there. Normal! You have been through a major surgery and all of your bits and pieces will be swollen and need to heal. If the spotting gets heavy or bright red, call your Dr.! 5. Move around and walk when you can. Relaxation and rest are key but the movement helps with the gas pains and gets your body into recovery mode. 6. Never be ashamed or embarrassed to ask for help with anything!! You are in recovery and those that love you will understand that and take care of you! 7. Hang in there! This too shall pass. This surgery has been decided for a reason and the only necessary outcome is a pain free, happy future!