Nervous about the deed!

Goodness, I love all of you for this thread! Tomorrow will be 9 weeks post-op and still haven't done the deed. I'm SO nervous that it brings me to tears. My bf has been so patient and understanding, I just hate to let him down. I'm sure it's all in my head and all will be fine, but it's just been so long since I've felt sexy...

Jessica

I found a lubricant at Rite Aid that I really like. It is called Moist Again by Vagigard (I think) it comes with an applicator so you can insert it. I never seemed to be able to get it where i really needed it and with this applicator it is easy to inser a bit ahead of time to give it a chance to get working.

It can be used any time for moisture and comfort. I have the Very Private personal lubricant from this site as well and I love that one too. It is thinner and doesn't seem to last as long. But I have use the applicator from the other one to insert some of it and that worked too.

I hope all the first timers goes well. Our first time post op was wonderful.

Oh, yeah I used a Vitamin E suppository inserted the night before the first time - that worked great. (I wanted the first time to be in the morning when I was well rested and no swelly belly at the end of the day.)

Happy Valentines' Day

I am so with the rest of you on this. I have my 4 week post-op check up tomorrow. I am sure it is still gonna be another 2 weeks before I have to worry about it, but I am so worried about it. I am also worried about the appointment. Anyway, wanted to thank everyone that posts on here. I am so glad I found this site because it definitely helps to hear from others that are going through similiar/same experiences.

I was released for sex at 5 and 1/2 weeks post op went slow and was fantastic . I think its perfectly normal to be nervous the first time . one thing i noticed since my LAVH i orgasm even faster and more often .all that worrying for nothn lol

we used astroglide based on another thread...the first time I was nervous but there was no pain just take it slow and easy and you will be fine