TAH: desperate...please help

actually it is once every minute in north america

i cant maneuver this site......where do i find those threads

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Originally Posted by zenobia11 i cant maneuver this site......where do i find those threads

You see those purple tabs at the top of the page on the right hand side? There is one for Main, Store, Members, Forums, etc. Click on the one that says Forums. That will get you the list of sub-forums. There should be one that says Post-Op (it is right underneath the Pre-Op one). Click on it. Then you will see a long list of all the topics. Some topics will be labelled "Recover Progress Reports for Hysterectomy dates..." Find the one with the date of the week of your hysterectomy and post your progress there. Hope this helps!

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Originally Posted by zenobia11 I cant think see or breathe....I am freaking out.... Somebody please help me. I am bleeding for the last time, as my tah is in two days from now. The extreme sadness and fear is bordering on desperation to get out of my own head.....Can someone please tell me that i will still be a woman...that my duty to bleed on the earthh is not my only duty as a woman here....that i will be upright again...that i wont have a stroke...my bowel or my bladder nicked.....will someone please tell me that i won't feel that there is glass in my vagina...that it wont be shortened and sex will be pleasurable again....that i will *** again....Can someone please tell me that i won't be all alone and helpless through all of this....that my family will assist me, and that the pain will not be so excrutiating that i will wish for death....please...can somebody stop this noise in my head?

Omg you sound just like I did a week ago today. Only difference is I also thought I'd die on the table. You will be fine and bleeding is not your only purpose in life. As soon as this is over you'll know that. My DH has been extremely loving & helpful. I was completely shocked & fell in love again. My recommendation is 1 tbs of milk of magnesium daily. It will keep your bowels going & make things easier for you. My thoughts & prayers will be with you for your big day.