TAH sex 6 months post hysterectomy

Orgasms are a lot harder to achieve and not as explosive as before. What the heck!?

You actually have desire? LOL
I am 10 months post-op and immediately after surgery, I couldn't get enough, now I don't think about it much.
But, my doctor recommended Astro-Glide personal lubricant liquid and let me tell you, having my husband use just a tiny drop on a finger really does the trick. Yes, it takes longer, but he has become more attentive to assuring mutual satisfaction.

My doctor told me to "rethink" the process and start concentrating on what I really wanted...and we started doing that and because we don't enjoy each other as often (only every couple weeks now), once we get in rythym, it's really wonderful. I actually find my orgasms are much deeper and longer lasting.