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Still don't know when I'll be scheduled
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11-15-2012, 01:59 PM
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Posts: 188
Hysterectomy: December 14th, 2012
Surgery Type: LAVH
Ovaries: Removed both
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Still don't know when I'll be scheduled
I just got off the phone with my doctor. Sigh. He gave me the complex hyperplasia with atypia diagnosis on 10/31. Said someone would call me within the week to schedule the hysterectomy. A week later (after leaving messages) I spoke with the surgery scheduler who said she'd get back to me. A week after that I spoke with her again and she said she was waiting to hear from the doctor. I finally got my phone call appt with my doctor today to ask him what's up. He basically gave me the song and dance about limits on his time and how much time he can be out of the office and at the hospital, etc. Then he said he didn't know the scheduler was waiting for him. Something about that he has been in the hospital with other patients three days this week so he hasn't been able to see the head of the department who can basically "excuse" him from the office to do the surgery. Whatever! I don't need to know all this. I just need him to make it happen. Talk to who you need to talk to, and make it HAPPEN!
He's the one that said it should be done soon. Now the latest is that he says that the scheduler will call me before Thanksgiving with a date and that he hopes we can set it up for the first part of December.
This prolonged indecision is stressing me out. I schedule meetings all the time. How hard can it possibly be? Get a couple of schedules together--his, the hospital's, and the oncologist (because it could be cancer!) and pick a date. I have told anyone who will listen that I'M READY WHEN THEY ARE. I'm ready now for Pete's sake!
At least anger feels better than crying. Sigh!
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11-15-2012, 02:57 PM
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HysterSister
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Posts: 65
Hysterectomy:
Surgery Type: DvH
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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Re: Still don't know when I'll be scheduled
i am facing a similar problem with my dr's office, I am done waiting!!!!
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11-15-2012, 03:55 PM
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HysterSister
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Posts: 274
Hysterectomy: December 18th, 2012
Surgery Type: DvH
Ovaries: Removed both
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Re: Still don't know when I'll be scheduled
Oh my!!! I don't know how either one of you are handling the wait of being scheduled. I mean - to be scheduled and have to wait for your date is one thing - but at least you have a date. To sit there with the big unknown in front of me would drive me insane!!
I must say - I think I would be a little worried, not that I am saying that your doctor isn't good or efficient - but I would be worried if after repeated phone calls nothing has happened.
My doctor has been a godsend. I went in on a Wednesday, we decided on surgery and she told me the scheduler would call before the end of the week. That Friday morning, the scheduler called, confirmed that she talked to my insurance, all was approved, scheduled my pre op, surgery and post op. I received a confirmation email within 10 minutes after speaking to her. About 5 days later I called back asking for a doctor excuse that I could give to my employer and 10 minutes later, there was a letter in my inbox.
I have gotten very lucky with their attention and their response to me so far. I wish all doctors would feel the same way about their patients!! I am so sorry that you ladies have had to wait so long.
My best wishes for a speedy scheduling!!!
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11-15-2012, 04:17 PM
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HysterSister
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Posts: 950
Hysterectomy: December 10th, 2012
Surgery Type: SAH
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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Still don't know when I'll be scheduled
I've had problems for three or four years but finally sought medical attention a few months ago. I'm 39 with multiple large fibroids (07cm) and a uterus the size of a 16 week pregnancy.I was diagnosed in September anddecided on a supracervical abdominal hysterectomy and removal of both tubes. I'll keep my cervix and ovaries.
I have to gi to the bathroom every 20 minutes,look and feel six months pregnant, always in pain, fatigued, even my sweats are too tight, uncomfortable all the time and my back aches. I haven't been able to lift very heavy in the gym and feel awkward. I have a daughter gettin married this Spring and another daughter whos second baby is due in Early April. The rest of our kids (seven total) are active in Sports and we have our annual New Year Christian Family Camp trip at the end of December. I STILL am waitin' to be scheduled and I'm frustrated. Can't plan what i can or can't do in the months ahead and i wanna be healed up so i can fly out yo help our son in law when the baby comes. I'm desperate for a call ftom Ksiser, my bag is literally packed and i have a wonderful husband who's ready to care for us.
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11-15-2012, 05:18 PM
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HysterSister
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Posts: 145
Hysterectomy: December 28th, 2012
Surgery Type: DvH
Ovaries: Undecided
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Re: Still don't know when I'll be scheduled
I felt like that too. Called and left a message for the surgery scheduler. Called back about 4 days later and she was in. She literally told me that she didn't have a reason for not calling me back. Seriously? You don't tell someone that... you make up a reason!
Then on Monday I called again to see if the January surgery schedule had opened. She said "Yes, you are on it... didn't I tell you?" Of course she scheduled it for the 1 week of the next 3 months that my husband has a business trip. She finally called today and gave me the date of 12/28. Works for me!
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11-15-2012, 06:34 PM
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HysterSister
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Posts: 132
Hysterectomy: November 6th, 2012
Surgery Type: SAH
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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Re: Still don't know when I'll be scheduled
Hope you can get a date soon. The hurry up and wait part is the worse. Take care!
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11-15-2012, 06:43 PM
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HysterSister
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Posts: 381
Hysterectomy: November 19th, 2012
Surgery Type: DvH
Ovaries: Removed both
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Re: Still don't know when I'll be scheduled
I feel terrible for those of you who are struggling for a surgery date. It is difficult enough to be in pain and the unknown. I am sure the stress can feel over whelming. I have been very fortunate with my Dr, Her office, and the hospital. I will pray that things improve and you get a set date.
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11-16-2012, 07:30 AM
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Posts: 188
Hysterectomy: December 14th, 2012
Surgery Type: LAVH
Ovaries: Removed both
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Re: Still don't know when I'll be scheduled
I think it's this site and all the positive vibes and genuine concern that are keeping me sane. I really do feel like I've find some new sisters. And even though some of us are having the same problems and delays in getting our dates scheduled, it's tremendously helpful to know that someone else "gets" what I'm going through. My doctor certainly didn't. THANKS! Hugs to you all!
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11-20-2012, 08:00 AM
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Posts: 188
Hysterectomy: December 14th, 2012
Surgery Type: LAVH
Ovaries: Removed both
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Re: Still don't know when I'll be scheduled
Oh my! I just found out my date. The surgery scheduler just called to confirm my address. Something about how the hospital had me down with my old address. But then off-hand said, "They have you in the system for the 14th." And then she said she'd call me back with the details, as she rushed off the phone to re-confirm my address with the hospital.
Kinda anti-climatic. For some reason I got all nervous after she called... that I just got called back for a job interview kind of feeling. Kinda happy, kinda nervous. I can't believe I finally have a date. I'm so happy.
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11-20-2012, 09:57 AM
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HysterSister
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Posts: 950
Hysterectomy: December 10th, 2012
Surgery Type: SAH
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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Still don't know when I'll be scheduled
I'm excited for you. I also got a call yesterday to schedule me for December 31st. I accepted. Ten minutes later they called again. Someone cancelled for December 10th so they gave me that slot! Yay! A light at the end of the tunnel. Time to recheck my packed bag! Blessings to you!
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