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I really wish i would have waited to do my hys
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06-07-2007, 10:06 AM
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Posts: 87
Hysterectomy: April 23rd, 2007
Surgery Type: TVH
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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I really wish i would have waited to do my hys
hello
i havent posted in a few days
I think im at week six dont know anymore.
I feel like i did before surgery but my pain is more intense and my feelings oare off the wall . I have and eye infection in both eyes due to the uncontroled crying i get angry at everything have had pain in my left arm radiating to wrist with a numb thumb for 3 weeks havent gone to doc.
DH has been depresed for almost five days last 3 were almost unberable for me he was incoherent falling asleep twice while driving thank god i was with him he got so mad cursed me out called me so not so nice names and said i was making a **** big deal out of nothing and that he wants a divorce.
I didnt say anything held it all didnt want to say something out of anger that i could never take back. so last night he actually stayed up for about three hours and we talked a little i asked him to get help he says he is fine so i am going to give it a little more time and discuss this when i feel he is coherent to discuss everything.
In the mean time i have put my pain my emmotions and self at the bottom of what needs to be done as always i put everyone else first.
I am hopeping to see my doctor soon as i need to discuss why i am still having so much pain.
but had i known my life was going to be so unberable i would have waited to this surgery i could handle the 21 plus days periods the pain the depression for a week but not this much wow i am just so overwhelmed but i am really trying to keep it together
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06-07-2007, 10:48 AM
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Posts: 1,082
Hysterectomy: January 18th, 2007
Surgery Type: TAH
Ovaries: Removed both
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I really wish i would have waited to do my hys
Hi I am sorry you are having so much pain! I hope the dr. finds out what the problem is soon. You should really try and put health first right now. I know that is easier said than done. When you are healed you can think clearer about you and your hubby. I was real emotional after my hyst. too.
I think everyone is after having a hysterectomy!
Take care of yourself please and remember to pamper the princess
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06-07-2007, 12:34 PM
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Posts: 74
Hysterectomy: May 8th, 2007
Surgery Type: SAH
Ovaries: Removed both
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I really wish i would have waited to do my hys
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Originally Posted by happygrand46
hello
i havent posted in a few days
I think im at week six dont know anymore.
I feel like i did before surgery but my pain is more intense and my feelings oare off the wall . I have and eye infection in both eyes due to the uncontroled crying i get angry at everything have had pain in my left arm radiating to wrist with a numb thumb for 3 weeks havent gone to doc.
DH has been depresed for almost five days last 3 were almost unberable for me he was incoherent falling asleep twice while driving thank god i was with him he got so mad cursed me out called me so not so nice names and said i was making a **** big deal out of nothing and that he wants a divorce.
I didnt say anything held it all didnt want to say something out of anger that i could never take back. so last night he actually stayed up for about three hours and we talked a little i asked him to get help he says he is fine so i am going to give it a little more time and discuss this when i feel he is coherent to discuss everything.
In the mean time i have put my pain my emmotions and self at the bottom of what needs to be done as always i put everyone else first.
I am hopeping to see my doctor soon as i need to discuss why i am still having so much pain.
but had i known my life was going to be so unberable i would have waited to this surgery i could handle the 21 plus days periods the pain the depression for a week but not this much wow i am just so overwhelmed but i am really trying to keep it together
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Hi, I'm so sorry you are having such problems. Please, please call your doctor and get in to see him/her as soon as possible. I hope you and DH can both get some help. You really need to put your health first so you can address everything else that's going on. It's so hard to deal with anything when you're not feeling well. I'll be praying for you.
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06-07-2007, 12:45 PM
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Posts: 7,531
Hysterectomy: October 23rd, 2006
Surgery Type: LSH
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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I really wish i would have waited to do my hys
you have to put your health first before you can take care of other people. go and see your dr and tell him about your pain and your depression. there are a lot of meds that can help with the moodswings and the pain may be caused by something very simple that he can fix. but you wont know and it wont get better unless you go. you are only given one body....and you HAVE to take care of it.
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06-07-2007, 05:10 PM
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Posts: 87
Hysterectomy: April 23rd, 2007
Surgery Type: TVH
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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I really wish i would have waited to do my hys
hello and thanks all
I will take care of me soon hopefully right now dh is a mess i dont know how much longer i will be able to deal with things I have shut down today i have no emotions i am simply excisting
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06-07-2007, 06:44 PM
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Posts: 864
Hysterectomy: May 22nd, 2007
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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I really wish i would have waited to do my hys
Make your dr appt and invite DH to come with you.
I think the best thing is to detach like you have and let him come to his own conclusion. Something is wrong.
Which is why an 'invite' to have DH come along to your appointment gives him an option. If he refuses, just carry on like it is ok.
You have your own healing to do - express to him that you are confident that he will find a way to get well. (It's his job). If you can help, to let you know. Then drop the topic, and heal up.
{{{{hugs}}}}
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