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Originally Posted by ANARDLT Ok, I'm curious.. what is FILK?

Hehehee, it is folk music based on Sci-Fi/Fantasy themes. Many songs are originals, though some are to the tune of well known songs. (TTTO) If you want a link to some free downloads for listening and a website that tells you more, drop me a PM

Cheers, Shadowe

I just realized that I left the word *music* out of my sig line...Silly Me! :P

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Originally Posted by April Dawn HysterSisters.com suggests that you follow your doctor's orders about any sort of sexual activity during the recovery period. To say "It is totally safe for you to masturbate as long as there is no vaginal penetration" is not true. The clearance other members get from their doctors does not take the place of calling your own doctor. We can't give that permission (or clearance) on this site--that would be giving medical advice which goes against the guidelines and HONcode. It's fine to share our own experiences (staying within the site PG rating, of course) but what is posted here on the message boards is never to be taken as medical advice. It's important that each Sister call her own doctor and ask what is and what is not acceptable. There's important information for early post-op Sisters to read in these links: Sex - Do I Really Have to Wait Six Weeks? Sex - Post-Op Libido and Sexual Activities Post-Op Sex Checkpoint Please be smart, call the doctor to ask what is and is not allowed if it hasn't already been explained at a pre- or post-op appointment, and follow your own doctor's orders. To do otherwise could have a bad outcome and I am sure we can all agree that it's not something we would want anyone to experience. s

Thanks. That was very informative and answered many of my questions. Of course, when I see my dr on the 20th of next month, I'll be prepared to ask him more detailed questions!

It works, It works!!! I couldn't stand it anymore I just had to know. Yes, with the help of my hubby I had the big O last night. I was scared at first, but then I just relaxed and it happened. WOW! I really needed that too. I have been so relaxed today. Just to let you know I asked my doctor last week if I could have the O and he said yes as long as nothing goes in the vagina. Good Luck everyone!

Hi lady's i am only 9 day in but i could not wait to find out if i could still get the big O so i did and you can thank goodness! lol But Only do what you can do i say.

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Originally Posted by montanachic Well I had the big "o" 3 days post op on accident! I have them in my sleep and wake up to them sometimes during dreams, and I woke up to one 3 days post op! It freaked me out but it felt great no pain and everything turned out fine. I held off on any that me or dh would have brought on until closer to 6 weeks and the dr. gave us the go ahead, they were great and are better than ever! Things will work just fine AND they will be much more fun without the other worries that came along with them before.

BONUS! I too have them in my sleep-they are the freebies while you recover, as far as I'm concerned!