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Moody is an understatement!
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06-07-2007, 06:49 PM
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Posts: 1,288
Hysterectomy: June 20th, 2007
Surgery Type: TVH
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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Moody is an understatement!
I seem to be becoming the classic description of a manic depressive!
Seriously though... I seem to be loosing control of my emotions and moodiness...
I don't mean to but I keep biting my DH's head off every time he says or does anything that I don't like or agree with... this is odd for me... we rarely bicker about anything... now it seems like every little thing just irritates the living @@@@ out of me!
I'm trying so hard to cope... but like everyone else... I just feel like I am literally on an emotional rollercoaster.
I bought the "Hyster Sisters Journal" which is pretty neat and started writing in it today... I think I will find it humorous to read at a later date down the road.... I just wish I could control my emotions better... I am not used to being so moody... or out of control!
Deep down I know I am doing the right thing, but I wish the day would just get here already.
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06-07-2007, 07:02 PM
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Posts: 811
Hysterectomy: June 29th, 2007
Ovaries: Undecided
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Moody is an understatement!
Desiree, you know I'm feeling the same way sometimes. Today was one of those days. Poor dh couldn't win for losing. My oldest and I had a huge falling out. There's something bugging him and I can't figure it out so I made him come down to talk after everyone else went to bed and he still says there's nothing wrong.. So why is he acting like such a little pain in the toe?!?!?! ARGH! Anyway, my dh irritated me with everything he said and did today. I'm not usually this bad... especially not when I have a whole day off.. I try to purposely be nicer b/c I want to enjoy it.. didn't work today. Huge hugs! Hopefully the moodswings will leave w/ the uterus!
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06-07-2007, 09:21 PM
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Posts: 97
Hysterectomy: June 13th, 2007
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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Moody is an understatement!
Desiree and Danielle,
I completely understand - I am on the same roller-coaster! The only thing that is keeping me from jumping off a cliff or running away is this site! Having Sisters to talk to rather than HIM - he doesn't have a uterus, nor could he EVER understand! It has got to get better after the BIG DAY! It is just kinda scary right now!
Gretchen
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06-08-2007, 12:12 AM
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Posts: 737
Hysterectomy: June 28th, 2007
Surgery Type: TAH
Ovaries: Removed both
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Moody is an understatement!
I am having the same problem. I can't help it I just get upset easily right now and it seems no one in my house understands.
Maybe its the pain, maybe lack of sleep, maybe I am already mourning my loss (before its happened)...who knows but I am even irritating myself so I can only imangine what my friends and family are going thru.
I am just on an emotional roller coaster (I am sure most can relate) and no matter how many times I tell myself that I am going to be in a good mood~there are just tiny things that set me off and I yell about it. I haven't cried yet.
Maybe thats what I need is a good cry?? Maybe its the pain meds effecting my mood? Anyone go thru that? Seems that since I started takin them in March I have been upset.
Any help or advise would be appreciated....my family and friends would appreciate it as well.
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06-08-2007, 05:01 AM
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Posts: 811
Hysterectomy: June 29th, 2007
Ovaries: Undecided
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Moody is an understatement!
Angie.. it is bad when we even irritate ourselves isn't it?!?! Well, I probably just need to go have a too. You're in the final stretch now and soon it will all be over!
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06-08-2007, 05:16 AM
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Hysterectomy: July 3rd, 2007
Ovaries: Undecided
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Moody is an understatement!
Hi Girls-- So it's not just me?? I am so glad that DH is out of town until right before my surgery. Sure, I'd love to have him w/ me for support right now but I don't know how supportive he'd be b/c I am soooooo moody. I feel like I need to go to the looney bin! I agree w/ whoever said "Hopefully the mood swings will leave w/ the uterus!" Kick 'em both to the curb! Here is to another day closer to our surgeries, Sarah
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06-08-2007, 06:03 AM
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Posts: 1,288
Hysterectomy: June 20th, 2007
Surgery Type: TVH
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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Moody is an understatement!
It sure feels goog NOT to feel alone doesn't it? I know our DHs, family, etc mean well by trying to by our side, but unfortunately (unless they've been there) they just don't understand. My DH tries (boy does he ever) and I feel awful for putting him on my rollercoaster ride, but at that same time I'm glad he's here... don't think I could do it without him.
On the other hand... I'm glad my family has chosen not to call and bug me to death about the upcoming surgery... I have a feeling when it gets real close that will all change though... I've actually asked my DH to be ready to answer those calls because I just don't think I'll want to talk about it and tell the same ol' story 50 million times
This is all so aggravating... the many things that we have each been through... and then the waiting on top of it all... I can't wait to get to the other side... YES I am still scared and worried... but from what I've learned this is the worst part and the hardest part to deal with
Good luck to everyone... keep the light at the end of the tunnel in sight and in there
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