Surgery 8/16...regret the decision

So, I had my surgery about 4 weeks ago. No complications. It was tues, I went home fri. Then, the following Monday, I went to ER with fever and was admitted for four days of IV RX. Came home.

I have 3 under age 5. The older two were gone to daycare and I had help during day for 1year old.
Today is the first day with all 3 and no help.

I havent been able to eat hardly due to constant nausea. Many days I have low grade fever and chills (around 99.5). And yesterday, I did something so stupid. It was naptime and my 4yo went and woke the 3yo up and got in her bed. I tried telling him to get out. I ended up yanking his 40lb out without thinking.

TMI: yesterday morning I was so constipated and ive never seen so much blood. It freaked me out. Then, since then I've had nothing but bright yellow diarhea. And just feeling oh so sore!

When will I feel normal again???

So sorry for how you are feeling Clcope. Everyone seems to be on a different time frame with ups & downs. One day I feel that "normal" is close, then the next day it seems like I will never see "normal" again. Hang in there we are all here to support you!
I would suggest following up with your Dr, regarding the bleeding and constipation.
Is is possible for the 2 older children to go back to daycare even for half days? You are taking on a lot by yourself. Big (((hugs))) to you.

Ask your dr for something for the nausea as my pain meds made me vomit alot. pain meds can cause the constipation too. OTC softeners can help if its a daily thing. You dont want to strain.

If you are bleeding heavily, have fevers etc, I suggest going to see your doctor ASAP or go up the ER...it may be something needing attention. As for the constipation stool softners can help...I'd still recommend going to your GP as soon as you're able.

Also, is there anyone to help you with the children or as mentioned, can they go back to daycare for a while?

Wishing you wellness xoxo