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Intimacy after hysterectomy
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07-05-2008, 01:20 PM
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Posts: 261
Hysterectomy: January 14th, 2008
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Hi
Sex has always been great before and after hysterectomy.........after the surgery I had no problems at all DH was alittle afraid he would hurt me but he never did and achieving the "O" was never a problem either. You will be fine. Denise.
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07-05-2008, 01:59 PM
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Posts: 4,241
Hysterectomy: June 18th, 2008
Surgery Type: SAH
Ovaries: Removed both
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Intimacy after hysterectomy
THen it IS still possible to acheive the "O" even after ovaries are removed?????? PLease tell me it is...please...please....please!!
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07-05-2008, 05:54 PM
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Posts: 40
Hysterectomy: June 5th, 2008
Surgery Type: TVH
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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Intimacy after hysterectomy
My doc appt is 5 DAYS AWAY!!!! Told me if all is well I will get the OK for intercourse and I can't wait! I'm happy my doc checks at 5 weeks because Ive heard so much about waiting 6 weeks. I am so ready. Just a couple of days ago DH finally got brave enough to just 'play' with me. He has been so afraid of hurting me. Which is sweet yes but..... I NEED ACTION TOO!!!! LOL...we have discussed it and I figure the first time may be tense a bit with worry about pain.
As far as orgasm, well I've had a few since my surgery and they are still very good and very strong but they feel...different. Before, they used to 'spasm' within your genital area and abdomen but now there is no spasms in my abdomen but it seems to make the ones in the genital area more intense. Im not sure if anyone will understand this or not. Or heck, maybe thats just me?
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07-06-2008, 09:33 PM
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Posts: 117
Hysterectomy: May 5th, 2008
Surgery Type: LAVH
Ovaries: Removed both
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Intimacy after hysterectomy
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Originally Posted by nakisai
One thing I forgot to mention,...... you might want to stay away from those deep penetration or acrobatic positions for a while..... I think those might be the reason many people end up bleeding and sore.
Take it easy... and best of luck when you are cleared.
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That's the only problem we had, not letting him go too deep. That's partly due to my posterior repair tightening things up a bit and I think I'm just too nervous to let my DH go too deep. When he has, it feels a little weird but each time it has been better. No problem achieving the big O, though.
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07-06-2008, 11:47 PM
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Posts: 6
Hysterectomy: June 10th, 2008
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Intimacy after hysterectomy
I am 3 weeks post op for LAP. Hyst. (sorry I cant remember were to find the abreviations). My husband and I just could not wait to keep our hands off of each other. We had a long sessions of fondling and such I and I did have a wonderful orgasm ( No Penetration at all) just a great deal of massage and touching. Not sure I will not be totallly nervous when we get to green light from the doctor but so far so good. (we have been married for 26 years and this had to be one of the best nights we have had. So relax and enjoy each other it will all fall into place. Good luck
rmaura
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07-07-2008, 08:07 AM
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Posts: 70
Hysterectomy: June 3rd, 2008
Surgery Type: TAH
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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Intimacy after hysterectomy
My TAH was June 3rd, so I'm just over a month. Last nite hubby and I got a little carried away. No penetration mind you, just the big O. I didn't seem too have any trouble w/ that part of it.
But the pain from the muscles around my incision scared me some. So I don't think we'll try that again until the Dr ok's it. I don't get too see him until my 8th wk.
I kept my ovaries and my cervix, so what I felt didn't seem any different too me.
Yes best wishes too all of us, this is a nerve racking part of recovery itsn't it.
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07-07-2008, 12:02 PM
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Posts: 69
Hysterectomy: May 27th, 2008
Surgery Type: LAVH
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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Intimacy after hysterectomy
Hubby and I have done the foundling (no penatration) several times since my hysterecomy, no problem with the big O. Tomorrow is my 6 week post-op, so I am hoping to get released and get the ok. I had very painful intercourse before due to the prolapse, so I am hoping it will be better now
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07-07-2008, 12:28 PM
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Hysterectomy: June 10th, 2008
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Intimacy after hysterectomy
Best of luck and have a great time!
Robin
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07-07-2008, 10:26 PM
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Posts: 222
Hysterectomy: May 28th, 2008
Surgery Type: TLH
Ovaries: Removed both
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Intimacy after hysterectomy
K i have been cleared for it, but my mate is still in the US till september so umm still got a while to wait . but I can say that had my first O in hospital while I was recovering, talk about interesting to say the least .. lol .. who need an internal ultrasound could trigger something like that .. lol
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