TVH Hemotoma by bladder, TVH, Sept 19/11, Kids Mentioned

Hello ladies. I am lost. I am usually a quick healer and thought I would be over the hump of this at the beginning of this week. However due to a lot of pain in my lower right area they did an ultrasound and found a hemtoma type thing right by my bladder. Sadly the doctor has informed me this will slow down my recovery. Ugh! I am frustrated and sad. They gave me a script for percacets and told me to take it easy.

Now here's the fun part . . . I have 5 kids. I have 3 older ones who can basically self manage but two little guys who are 4 and 2. They are at the sitters but that is going to run out soon as money is tight. My husband owns his own company and things are very slow right now. So I suspect sooner rather than later the kids will be home during the weekdays as well. The weekends are hell as it is right now.

I am s stressed. Anyone else in a similar situations and did you get through it, are you getting through it.

We have zero support as a family right now. It's just my husband and I in a small town. No living parents to come and stay to help.

Thanks for listening and sorry for the long vent.

I posted earlier today about finding out yesterday that I also have a hematoma, and am in a TON of pain. (Had vaginal cuff revision 2 weeks ago) I can fully relate, as I also have little ones at home. Just wanted to let you know that you are not alone.

Thanks so much for your response. This is a tough one for sure. Sometimes I just want to sit in corner and cry. I hate feeling like this. But hey today put dishes in dishwasher and turned it on.