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01-04-2013, 12:50 PM
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HysterSister
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Posts: 228
Hysterectomy: November 29th, 2012
Surgery Type: TLH
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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Re: Need Some Advice. :(
Ava, I am so sorry you're having such a rough time. I can tell you from the perspective of an adopted child (I was adopted at 6 months of age) that love is love no matter "blood" relation. My mommy is my mommy. Daddy is daddy. My "biologicals" were very young and still in school. Because they loved me, they decided to allow me to be adopted. Because my parents could not have biological children of their own, the took me as their own, and loved me and raised me as if I'd been born to them.
Give yourself time, Ava. Your grief is understandable, and normal. I just wanted to give you hope for the future, and let you know adoption is a terrific option. I have been blessed beyond measure in so many ways by 2 separate families.
Give yourself time, and be good to yourself, ok?
Lauri
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