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OK *First* he called me his Hillbilly...
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04-06-2004, 10:34 PM
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Posts: 253
Hysterectomy: April 15th, 2004
Ovaries: Removed both
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OK *First* he called me his Hillbilly...
because all I can fit my stomach in are overalls, *then* later on the couch he started talkiing to my bloated stomach like there was a baby in it!
OMG, it cracked me UP and made me laugh, but hurt my feelings at the same time. It was a new emotion, this mixture of laughter and humiliation ., lol
I DON"T want to be like this ANYMORE and that TOTALLY makes me want to cry!!!!!
8 days to go!
puppet
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04-06-2004, 11:18 PM
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Posts: 144
Hysterectomy: March 25th, 2004
Surgery Type: TAH/SAH
Ovaries: Removed both
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I am sorry
Oh honey. I think he was just trying to make you feel better and maybe make you laugh. I don't think he really meant to hurt your feelings. It would have hurt my feelings too, but I really don't think he meant to.
It will all be over soon hon. It is funny because I was big for so long that I never even noticed it until it was all gone.
Hang in there kiddo. We are here for you.
God Bless
P
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04-06-2004, 11:24 PM
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OK *First* he called me his Hillbilly...
Pmaen,
I agree it wasn't purposeful, I know he's a goofball sometimes,
and he was trying to make me laugh, and I did laugh, it was funny, and I'm darn funny. It just still hurt at the same time because I don't want to be in this mess anymore, I'm SO tired of feeling disgusting and don't really like being reminded even if it's funny , if that makes any sense!
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04-07-2004, 12:02 AM
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Posts: 48
Hysterectomy: May 17th, 2004
Surgery Type: LAVH
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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OK *First* he called me his Hillbilly...
Hi Puppet,
Wanted to send you a If you want to chat, send me a pm.
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04-07-2004, 06:08 AM
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Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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OK *First* he called me his Hillbilly...
At least it was him. I had a perfect stranger ask when I was due. Literally brought me to tears. Myu hubby shuffled me towards the door. Then went back and gave the person a piece of his mind.
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04-07-2004, 06:13 AM
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Hysterectomy: May 3rd, 2004
Surgery Type: TAH
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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OK *First* he called me his Hillbilly...
I know what you mean. My very first post was asking how do deal with strangers rubbing my belly. (Used to have problems with strange guys grabbing my butt...my, how things have changed!)
I know he meant no harm, but it still hurts. I'm sure he won't do it again. Right?
hugs
akita
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04-07-2004, 06:14 AM
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Hysterectomy: April 12th, 2004
Surgery Type: SAH
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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OK *First* he called me his Hillbilly...
I hate the "so when is the baby due" comments! I NEVER ask people that - and I work in a pediatricians office. I wait until the mom says they are expecting a new baby. It HURTS, it's embarrassing.
Even though yours was a joking, tongue-in-cheek experience, I know it still hurt your feelings some. HUGS
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04-07-2004, 06:17 AM
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Hysterectomy: April 19th, 2004
Surgery Type: TAH
Ovaries: Removed both
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OK *First* he called me his Hillbilly...
LMAO mine does the same thing...mabye it how they are able to keep it together.i know it must be very hard to see there loved ones hurt so bad......... soon soon it will all be out
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04-07-2004, 06:47 AM
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Posts: 1,221
Hysterectomy: June 14th, 2004
Surgery Type: TAH
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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OK *First* he called me his Hillbilly...
rule #1....never EVER ask a woman if she is pregnant, until you actually see the head of a baby coming out of her
I know he was trying to be cute....and you did laugh. But I would tell him that he hurt your feelings. I'm sure he didn't mean to. But I know it must have hurt. It's not your fault you are not well, and the last thing you need is someone drawing attention to your belly.
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Tam
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04-07-2004, 10:41 AM
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Hysterectomy: April 15th, 2004
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OK *First* he called me his Hillbilly...
Thanks for "getting it" girls! LOL
Can't wait til I'm not a JOKE anymore!
Puppet
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