New and worried

I posted this as a "reply" because I didn't know how to post it as a separate thread.

I'm new to this site, and at age 56, thought I was completely through menopause. Ha! An extended period of bleeding which ended only after my DR told me to double my HRT! Then I had an ultrasound which showed complex ovarian cysts with possibility of ovarian cancer. My gyn has said I need a hysterectomy and referred me to an oncologist-gynocologist surgeon, who I will see this week. I am also going down to the Mayo Clinic the next day for a second surgical opinion pre-surgery. My brain seems to have stopped working regarding normal things: I let a perfectly good saucepan filled with sugarwater for the hummingbirds burn down to carbon, setting off the smoke alarm, before I remembered it was on the stove! I seem to either worry about the surgery, or about the possibility of cancer. I've spent the last year recovering from bilateral knee replacements, and was due to start a new job on Aug. 18, which is now on hold. It feels like everything is on hold. I am grateful for the different threads and postings, because I've already made up a list of questions to ask the surgeon. Any suggestions you might have for my particular situation would also be appreciated.


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MaryL

Try not to worry. The forgetfulness and distraction seem to be a normal side-effect of the pre-op stress. I've been easily distracted going from one activity to the next until DH reels me in.

My surgery is 1 week from today. I've been cleaning & organizing (almost a "nesting" instict) constantly. Getting a 2nd opinion and being informed as much as possible, consider family history, ask DR as many questiona as you can think of - there are no silly or unnecessary questions regarding your health & well being!

Post your surgery date when you know it so you can receive encouragement from other hyster-sisters.

PS -- Thanks for reminding me about my humming birds. I have to change the food b4 I go in 4 surgery! Use a timer with a LOUD alarm!!!!! I have one that beeps incessantly (like a 2 year old) until you pay attention to it! Your health takes precedent over any job IMHO.

Mary~

Welcome to Hyster Sisters!

I can competely understand your fear and concern and I'm hoping that everything turns out well for you. You will find tons of support here. I don't know if you have been to the Cancer Concerns Forum yet but you should check it out also, the ladies there may be able to answer some of your questions you may have about possible cancer. No matter what forum you are on you will be blessed with lots of support.

Let us know how your doctors visits turn out.

s & ers,

Donna

Hi MaryLF: Just wanted to comfort you and tell you I've read that MOST ovarian cysts are benign, even for postmenopausal women. I know it's hard but please try to keep positive thoughts. We are all praying for the best outcome for you. Love, Jen

Thanks for all the encouragement. I see my tentative surgeons tomorrow and Thursday, and will let you know how it goes.