4 weeks and the hubby is starting to want to be touchy

I will be 4 weeks on Thursday. My hubby is starting to become touchy freely. I told him the doc said nothing for 6-8 weeks. I'm just not ready for anything. I'm still trying to heal, I don't want to satisfy anyone. It is already hard to find a comfortable position to sleep but to have him rubbing and feeling has been greeting on my nerves. His saying is, your doc said no penetration. I don't want anything, just want to heal.. I am now laying on the couch so I won't be tempting!!
Also I have been having this weird sensation in my leg and it is very uncomfortable, my right leg is still numb from the surgery but I can't describe the feeling that is happening in both legs but very annoying. When I was pregnant I had what they call restless leg syndrome, and this is what it puts me in the mind of..... Just want to sleep in peace....

I know what you mean. I had a TAH on the same day.

Stay strong & resist the urge to give in to intercourse. It could be a disaster at this point. Its still too soon...

Maybe there is something else you are willing to do for him (if you feel up to it) to get him to back off?
He made it this long, another2 or 3 weeks wont kill him!!

Feel better soon sister

I know what you mean! Waiting for clearance from the Dr isn't a problem.... but hubby wants to "make out" like teenagers... ugh. Between not sleeping, mood issues, hot flashes at night, the kids, and everything else on my mind... no, I don't feel like sitting on the sofa and making out watching a movie! Now... rub my back, my feet.. make ME feel better and maybe it'll go somewhere but for now? yeah... just not in the mood. Sounds terrible but once I know that it's fine to have sex... and it isn't going to hurt... I can "oo & ah" and get it over with. Odd part is.... just a few weeks ago, sex was all I could think about. I guess my hormones surged... that ship has sailed. lol

You are not alone. Trust me!

Lol!!! Glad to know I'm not alone!!!! I know men can't hold out as long as we can but I asked him last night could he at least be considerate that I still hurt and I don't want nobody touching me or poking on me. It is already hard to get comfortable!!