Very Emotional Day

Today is a Very Emotional day for me. My husband seems not to care about me he cares about his friends and his self he don't care about me since i had my hysterectectomy. I don't know what to do. I just feel like i want to leave him.

sorry to hear you are having a sad day.I think many of us feel like this.Im in wk3 and i have had so many tears.My emotions are on a roller coaster at the moment, dont know if thats how you feel?

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Originally Posted by groovychickuk sorry to hear you are having a sad day.I think many of us feel like this.Im in wk3 and i have had so many tears.My emotions are on a roller coaster at the moment, dont know if thats how you feel?

yes that is how i am feeling at the moment my husband know how i am and he know he can't leave me here by myself because he knows how i am bout harming myself and picking up on heavy things i told him i would be picking up on something heavy and hurting myself and he seems not to care. He cares more about his friend then he does me.

He does care. Trust me I know. I had a day like that last week, but its our minds that make us feel like they don't care. He doesn't know how to deal with it. Maybe we are sometimes being to demanding for them and it makes them back off.

Men can be insensitive to things like this because they don't understand what it is like. I had a day like this as well. Our hormones are everywhere...keep your chin up...it will be okay.

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Originally Posted by sgreb Men can be insensitive to things like this because they don't understand what it is like. I had a day like this as well. Our hormones are everywhere...keep your chin up...it will be okay.

Why could he take my children with him i told him not to leave them here with me today.

Ive been emotional too, sooner than I expected. Watching tv makes me cry... I dont have a husband but i do have a son and hes tired of taking care of mom already! At least thats how I feel, he still jumps if I need anything. I have to agree with sgreb men are insensitve ESPECIALLY during stuff like this because they simply dont understand whay we are going through. hope things get better.. have your husband read the dear honey section( i think thats what its called)

I will thank you for letting me know about that section.

I've had many emotional days (and nights) before and after my surgery. They aren't any fun at all .

Remind yourself that it's normal to be very emotional. Also remind yourself that it can be awfully difficult for men to understand that fact. Hopefully, he'll show more sympathy after more exposure to other men and women in situations like these.

The emotional part of our minds often convince us that everything we perceive simply is fact. Try to talk to your hub about things once you get a handle on your emotions ~ to hopefully prevent any hurt feelings and gain better understanding of one another's point of view.

Best wishes to you, Princess!
Heather

lilangel,
If you really feel you will harm yourself, you need to tell your doctor about it right away! Depression is common after a hysterectomy for many reasons, and you may need some medical help to get you through this time. NO MAN IS WORTH HARMING YOURSELF OVER!
Praying for you,