Kind of embarrassing question

Well, here I sit in the middle of the night... Weird questions to ask.
Hubby has always enjoyed groping my breasts at his whim. I am very responsive in that area. Last night, he was rubbing them for a while, thinking that some cuddle time was in order since it has been 4 weeks- wasn't after sex, just some touching time. He has been told by the doctor that dr's preference is that we wait 12 weeks. I am glad my dr is not shy about informing the husband of his responsibilities in my recovery!
So the concern/question is this- stimulation involves a response of blood flow to the vagina and surrounding areas. Is this good or bad?
I will be 4 weeks out Thursday- with some early complications that resulted in an order to stay on the couch until week 5. I don't want to risk successful healing of the cuff- I seem to have not caused any more trauma to the area like I did on day 10. Antone have thoughts on this?

Cherishmen1, well I will be 5 weeks this thursday, I saw Dr. and he said for me to have pelvic rest for another 4 weeks, He told my Dh. to be gentel the first time with intercourse wich now it will be 2 months actualy it has been more then 2 months because before my surgery it was painful to have sex. I had a small tear in the cuff, he fixed it and yesterday when I saw him said I am healing well. All I can do is wait.