3 months to go

Waiting is the hardest thing. Three months to go.

Two weeks ago my best friend told me she was pregnant. And my other best friend told me she is trying. My heart broke. All I could think of was that I should be having another baby with them so we can all have babies together (I have two, this will be their first).

But I know that my decision is right. It's just heartbreaking.

My dr (a gyn/onc) says I'll be fine within 2-3 weeks. Hes doing a lap hyst. And ovaries will stay providing they are okay.

In the meantime, I'm considering donating eggs before they hyst. I'm not sure if I can do it afterwards, but if so I probably will. I'd like to help those who can't have babies - and in Australia there is a massive shortage of eggs donated (there are no payments made for egg donations etc) so thats something that I'll consider.

I'm really worried about being tired afterwards. I'm tired and exhausted now - so I think I'll need time off beforehand to catch up on sleep so I dont' go into it doubly exhausted.

Okay - off to do some more reading of tips in here!

aww i know how hard it is when waiting for suregery and then every one around you is pregnant or trying. big hugs. Even though it is the right decision and for the best its still hard and hard to go threw with. after wards the first week sleep will be your best friend lol, sleep will help you heal faster. Good luck and hope the next few months go by fast for you.
good luck
hugs
lisa