How do I explain this to him?

I am at the point where I don't know what to do. I am only 30 but I had me hysterectomy back in 04 when I was 22. Every since then I have not been able to keep a relationship either because my SEX drive is at zero or the fact that I am unable to have anymore children. My boyfriend now is getting very frustrated cause i don't want sex. How can I explain to him my situation or what can I do to improve things between us

Hi confused,
I have to say that your post made me very sad. I am so sorry to hear that you are going through this. Have you talked to your doctor about your sex drive?? I thought that if you still had your ovaries you didnt lose your sex drive like if they were removed. Maybe more foreplay or maybe you just need more romance. I think that if you no longer have a uterus then you need more clitorial stimulation. I could be wrong but thats what I find helps me.

Unfortunately I can't go to my doctor like I want due to lack of insurance. It is hard to deal with he is now threatening to leave me. So I guess it doesn't matter. But I will keep that in mind

My dr gave me testosterone cream, it really helped increase my sex drive. I to am 30, I had my surgery when I was 26. My sex drive was zero, never even got the urge, after talking to my dr we decided on testosterone cream which really worked wonders!!! I really hope this helps!