I think the shock has finally kicked in!

I had a appointment with the specialist today to discuss what my options are, and it seems the only one is surgery. I thought I was OK - but now I'm a little upset (and that's the understatement of the year!!). What's a girl to do? I know that logically it's the best option to fix all the problems that I've been having - but now sitting here trying to deal with the reality of the situation it's hit me like a ton of bricks. And to add to the drama of the situation I have to go through the public health system. The waiting list is 6 months at the moment. I really don't think I can wait that long!! Any suggestions on how to deal with the stress? And on top of all that I'm on a strong dose of hormones to help stop the heavy bleeding, and the side effects of them is depression and mood swings.

I did not want surgery and avoided for as long as I could but it was the best thing I ever did! I know 6 months is a long time but it will pass by. Hang in there and prayers to you for relief and patience in the present time. Blessings.

Hi Rubierose.

I had day surgery last week to try to remove a fibroid(only got 1/3 of it out) that is causing heavy bleeding, anemia. I will probably need more, but I have to wait 3 more months. I waited 3 months for this operation.
This web site is the best support . You will find many others to talk with who are somewhere on their own journey who also remember the day the Dr. said the H word. It is overhwelming. Like the sisters here say, take a deep breath. You didn't mention why you need the operation, or if you have thought about getting a second opinion.
Look around the site for info on hormones. Some of the Ladies here are very well informed and ready to help.
I will be praying for you.

Waiting is the hard part! Keep busy and try not to worry (I know, famous last words)

Learn all you can about your condition and types of options available. This site will be your best friend!

I went to my dr for a consult for an ablation, and he recomended a hyst. I have adenomyosis, and the ablation would just prolong the inevitable. It was an agonizing few days while I tried to make the decision about what to do. Once I finally did, a lot of the stress left. Now I am just waiting until my date, and maybe it really hasn't hit me yet, but I believe because I took the time with my decision and researched it along with a 2nd opinion, I am more at piece.

Thanks for the messages of support girls! The reason the H word is necessary is I have 2 fibroids - one (5cm) on a stalk which is in danger of twisting and dying, and another (4.5cm) situated at the neck of the cervix. Because of that my uterus is now at the size of a 16 week pregnancy. AND added to the problems the heavy persistant bleeding (which isn't being controlled by hormone therapy) rules out an IUD staying put. Phew! I know I'm not in any way unique with these problems - but it sure helps to let off steam with women going through the same issues.

I hope they can get you in sooner than 6 months. I have had to wait for 6 weeks, and that is bad enough. At least I have had time to research and make educated decisions. Please keep us posted!