Scared to have sex with green light!! (sigh)

I was worried at first too. I didn't know how the vaginal cuff would feel to my BF and I was also worried about injuring it. the first two time I had sex again, I was so worried about it that I didn't relax and enjoy. But as time went on, the worries eased and I saw that everything was fine. I am still at times a little sore but I figure that is from the scar tissue. I hope that goes away with time.

Glass of wine will help. Haven't had sex yet, my partner's been out of town since Sept & I was "cleared for takeoff" in October. We're seeing each other for the first time this weekend. Yes, I'm nervous and anxious. Can't wait, but scared at the same time. We used lube anyway, as she & I had issues with being dry-so that's not a problem.

One thing that is helping me is "practicing at home" by myself. Really easing the tension and helping me get past being cautious. She's just as scared and anxious as I am. Slow & gentle is what she said to me yesterday. Just try & relax.