stressed more then ever

I am about a month pre op and i have never been so stressed. I find myself snapping at everyone over everything. Everything seems to make me mad. We have full custody of my 2step daughters and i find myself avoiding them as much as possible now cause they are at the age where everything is the parents fault and since i am the main mother figure in their lives i get blamed for most of it. I just cant handle the stress and i am still a month from surgery.......what so i do

choke the crap out of them!!! no no just kidding!!! I am a single mom of a 16y/o girl and there are some days I'd like to kick her square in the ***!! So I know the feeling. Are the aware of the surgery? Maybe sit them down and explain to them that you need them to step up and be helpful before the surgery not just AFTER. As far as everything making you mad; step back and look at if it's just them or the whole situation. Take time for yourself too, stress doesnt help at this point. Take a bath, do some yoga, get a mani/pedi. Iknow Im saying all these things and there are some days i feel like exploding! You need to take care of yourself too!!

Maybe you can speak with your doc about something for anxiety? It sounds like you are just overwhelmed. Take care of you!!!