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Frustrated with orgasm 1 year post hysterectomy
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06-11-2015, 11:29 PM
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Posts: 19
Hysterectomy: June 30th, 2014
Surgery Type: DvH
Ovaries: Removed both
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Frustrated with orgasm 1 year post hysterectomy
I'm almost 1 year out and I have to say that I am very frustrated with my orgasms, they are nothing compared to what they were. On the other hand, I have a TMI question because no one will ever tell me the truth...how do women have orgasms during intercourse? I've never been able to achieve that even with toys. My husband thinks that what you see on TV is real and now I think that I am abnormal not to be able to orgasm during intercourse, but only before or after. please advise. thanks!!!!
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06-12-2015, 12:26 AM
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Posts: 3,646
Hysterectomy: May 28th, 2014
Surgery Type: DvH
Ovaries: Removed both
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Re: orgasm
Been married 44 years - never had orgasm during intercourse unless my husband plays with my clitoris during intercourse. I do know there are women that have a spot inside the vagina (forget what it is called) that can cause it. So, you are not alone nor abnormal.
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06-12-2015, 11:23 AM
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Posts: 6
Hysterectomy: June 10th, 2015
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Frustrated with orgasm 1 year post hysterectomy
I personally think that it's less common to have an orgasm internally, though i have had them but only with my ex who was rather large and managed to hit some spot up by my cervix because of his length that resulted in an internal orgasm. It felt good but not as good as a clitirol orgasm. I only started having them in my mid thirties, and the person im with has to have the length to reach that spot....of course now that my cervix is gone, i have no idea if I'll have internal orgasms anymore now, and it's going to be awhile before i find out since i just had my surgery. Doing keigals can help too, other than that, let your self go during sex, fantasize and focus on your own pleasure of the experience, that helps too.
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06-12-2015, 02:28 PM
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Posts: 2,379
Hysterectomy: January 28th, 2014
Surgery Type: TVH
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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Re: orgasm
There's a website called, The Marriage Bed, you might check into, if the mods allow the reference. It's a Christian website and they have all kids of diagrams. That spot is the G Spot, some believe in it and some don't, but it seems to be the key. All ladies are different.
There's also a nice book called, Intimate Issues,' by Dillow that's for women. Great book.
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06-13-2015, 03:39 AM
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Posts: 81,723
Hysterectomy: April 7th, 2005
Surgery Type: SAH
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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Re: Frustrated with orgasm 1 year post hysterectomy
(((claudey)))
We're very sorry to hear you're experiencing difficulties.
Whilst we do we allow discussion regarding intimacy on the site, everyone needs to keep in mind that HysterSisters.com has a PG rating. The TOS requires that posts are not "obscene, profane, sexually explicit or descriptively graphic. Posts with sexual content should have a tone of maturity and appropriate vocabulary."
This does mean that replies regarding techniques or sexual positions are not allowed. We suggest that ladies check iVilliage.com for this type of information.
We're sending best wishes and positive thoughts!
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06-13-2015, 07:21 AM
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Posts: 2,379
Hysterectomy: January 28th, 2014
Surgery Type: TVH
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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Re: Frustrated with orgasm 1 year post hysterectomy
There is also a website, " Love, Honor & Vacuum," it's very tasteful and provides lotsa articles and good links that are helpful to ladies. Hope that helps as well. Good luck
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06-13-2015, 07:27 PM
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Posts: 141
Hysterectomy: February 11th, 2015
Surgery Type: TAH
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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Re: Frustrated with orgasm 1 year post hysterectomy
My orgasms are nowhere near the same. In fact it's almost like my body recoils in horror on occasion when it happens; my face tenses up and I have a headache. I'm not stressed about it beforehand, it's just a weird reaction, and it's probably about 40-50% decreased compared to before surgery. AND on top of that my pain isn't even gone yet, and they want to take my ovaries so I'll be in menopause. Good times. (I'm 33).
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