Hi Jneenersmile!
to HysterSisters!
The other sister is right. You are in the pre-op forum now, right where you should be. After surgery, you will go to the post-op forum, and will be with women who had surgery the same week as you. You can also post in the post-op forum in general after surgery. We also have specialty forums for particular problems.
This site is a wonderful blessing - I have found much healing here. This site is full of wonderful women who understand. It is very supportive - only women who are going through this, or have already gone through this, really understand.
To add to the list from Veggiegal, I would say
1. Get DVDs, light reading, etc for your recovery.
2. Get a small pillow to hold against your tummy for coughs, sneezes and pet visits.
3. Get blankets, and pillows for your recovery corner.
4. Get help! You will need help for several weeks with cooking, cleaning, laundry, dishes, driving, etc.
Post your questions, concerns, fears, emotions, etc. It really does help.