Pain and bleeding after intercourse

Tried for the first time, I was fine, until my DH was in the whole way, omg it was soooooo painful. To the point I actually cried. Prior to this surgery I never had pain during sex. Now I am bleeding (again.) Is it ever going to end? Guess we'll have to wait for another week and try again. I am soooooooo disappointed.

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Originally Posted by crafte Tried for the first time, I was fine, until my DH was in the whole way, omg it was soooooo painful. To the point I actually cried. Prior to this surgery I never had pain during sex. Now I am bleeding (again.) Is it ever going to end? Guess we'll have to wait for another week and try again. I am soooooooo disappointed.

I am nervous about having sex too. I will try to be in a relaxed state of mind. I am afraid of the bleeding as well. My doc cleared me so we shall see.

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Originally Posted by crafte Tried for the first time, I was fine, until my DH was in the whole way, omg it was soooooo painful. To the point I actually cried. Prior to this surgery I never had pain during sex. Now I am bleeding (again.) Is it ever going to end? Guess we'll have to wait for another week and try again. I am soooooooo disappointed.

I think we just have to be kind to our selves and hope time will be the healer it is supposed to be. Keep your chin up honey, the only way is up!
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Thanks Dazeymay. I talked to my gf last night and she said she just had to find different positions to find out which ones didn't hurt in the beginnning. So, we are going to try again today and see what works for us. Hopefully that will be the cure. My DH has been wonderful and is willing to wait, but I'm the one that is really impatient. We'll see what happens......