I am sooo tired of people telling me what I should have done!

Wishing you the best recovery. I'm new to this site so this is good to have dialogue with like minds and common ground.

Listen to your doctor. Your friends do care, but are not medical professionals. If I had listened to my family and friends who did not want me to have a hyst, I would be short a kidney right now. My doctor knew I was a mess, but even he was surprised once he got inside. I now feel better than ever and am so thankful to have been blessed with a smart and compassionate doc. Upon hearing the extent of things, my nay saying friends are thankful that I took my doctor's advice.

No one but you and your medical professional know what the right decision is for you based on the information you have at the time. Good, luck, take care & keep your chin up.