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VAGhyst, left one ovary, and bladder work...I don't feel bad, but I don't feel great, bit swollen, very lil spotting, how do you know if you do toooo much? I can't sit still so I walk alot by the end of the day I feel bloated and tight and achy. Having issues sleeping nothing more than four hours, haven't had much time to read up on everyone else and I am sorry I am generally very supportive and encouraging but haven't found my place.

I have kept somewhat quiet about having my surgery except my in laws and children and husband...and my SIL actually got mad at me for not telling her. Uggg

Just feel all over the place.

I'm sorry that your SIL was a brat. Some people just don't grasp that others are entitled to have different ideas about privacy than they do.

Between all the walking and shortened sleep cycle, it doesn't sound like you're getting much rest. Is there any kind of activity that you could do that would reduce the restlessness? (Going out to dinner helped me get past that caged animal feeling.) Please check with your doctor about the sleep issues, so that you can get the rest you need to heal.

Calling doctor monday morning, fighting feelings about being completely alone in a crowded room, that'd the only way I feel like I can describe my emotional state of mind. I do get emotional but not out of control emotionally. My husband is awesome and I don't know how he can stand me, lol. Friends don't understand it but hell maybe I just can't word it right. Getting frustrated, tell me this is normal.