Cleared for external stimulation, a little scared

Hello,
I will be 2 weeks post-op tomorrow and had my check-up today. I have read on this site that there are some women who have no sex drive after their surgery, I am definately not one that fits into that. I have been aroused for DAYS now and not wanting to mess anything up my DH and I have refrained from any fooling around.

I got cleared for external stimulation today and more than likely will be taking advantage of that later tonight

I am excited, but I guess a little nervous at the same time.

Does anyone have suggestions on what to expect?

Any personal expierence that you would like to share would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks!

Congrats on still having your sex drive. My best advice is to simply RELAX....it shouldnt be painful so try not to psych yourself out and make you tense up. Also, just make sure that you dont get too into it and forget that,it is only supposed to be OUTER stimulation. Just take things slow and....ENJOY!!! My sex life is better than it has ever been, but it did take time to,get there. to you and have fun!!!!

I was a bit scared the first external playing. I was scared it would hurt but it did not... In fact i felt like a first time guy. Wham, Bam, Ty you sir.... It was quick for me.
I am still not cleared for internal sex so playing around is it for me for 3 more weeks. It has been working so far..

I hope things went well for you...

Congrats! Um, enjoy yourself?