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Fuming, Irritated, Disappointed......
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03-09-2005, 08:38 AM
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Posts: 698
Hysterectomy: March 16th, 2005
Surgery Type: TVH
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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Fuming, Irritated, Disappointed......
Hey Sweetie,
I agree with the other Sisters, call a cleaning service to come in and get it done. If your DH wants to do it so bad, then he can do it himself. I am trying to take the last few days before surgery (I'm a day after you) for me too. I had a couple of last minute errands, but thats it. I'm half tempted to call a cleaning service to clean my bathrooms as well!! hehehe I'm already taking the dog to the vets for a bath, she hates water (who'd a thunk it, a dog that hates water! hehehe) and I don't feel like fighting her.
We are all behind you girl, just try to relax, rest up and take care of you.
great big hugs!!
Jen
P.S. Sending some California sunshine your way to brighten your day!
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03-09-2005, 08:52 AM
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Posts: 139
Hysterectomy: March 30th, 2004
Surgery Type: TAH
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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Fuming, Irritated, Disappointed......
I'll add my vote th the cleaning service! If you don't put your foot down now, you'll be fielding similar housework assignments when you are supposed to be recovering and not supposed to bend over and pick up more than 10 lbs...or even worse while you are still on the "do not operate heavy machinery" pain meds.
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03-09-2005, 11:10 AM
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Posts: 5,587
Hysterectomy: October 18th, 2005
Surgery Type: TAH
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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Fuming, Irritated, Disappointed......
Heck, at this point dh can contact the cleaning services. I went for my pre-op today and I am running a fever along with nasal congestion. Nasal breathing is a luxury for me right now. I've looked up cleaning services in my brother's area and I'm going to give the info to dh. Apparently, this is a project he wants to take on then he can have it: lock, stock, and barrel.
Thank you my darling Sisters!!! 's
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03-09-2005, 11:25 AM
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Posts: 59
Hysterectomy: March 10th, 2005
Ovaries: Undecided
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Fuming, Irritated, Disappointed......
You go girl! You really do need these days to relax and focus on yourself.I wish I had known that but I worked right up until the day of my surgery<tomorrow> Big mistake since there is so much last minute stuff to do. Your husband is sweet to try and do all of this for your brother but you need to take care of yourself first right now. Karen
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03-09-2005, 11:33 AM
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Posts: 5,587
Hysterectomy: October 18th, 2005
Surgery Type: TAH
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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Fuming, Irritated, Disappointed......
Karen, you have my blessings and prayers for tomorrow. I do hope you find time for yourself today.
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03-09-2005, 11:36 AM
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Posts: 59
Hysterectomy: March 10th, 2005
Ovaries: Undecided
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Fuming, Irritated, Disappointed......
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03-09-2005, 11:39 AM
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Posts: 5,587
Hysterectomy: October 18th, 2005
Surgery Type: TAH
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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Fuming, Irritated, Disappointed......
Way to go Karen.
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03-09-2005, 12:04 PM
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Posts: 866
Hysterectomy: September 17th, 2004
Surgery Type: TAH
Ovaries: Removed both
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Fuming, Irritated, Disappointed......
CessSecart, My heart goes out to you, your situation is way above and beyond what you should be dealing with right now. I hope you can do something to feed your soul before and after your surgery.
Sounds like your DH and brother could use some family counciling along with a cleaning service.
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03-09-2005, 12:07 PM
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Posts: 397
Hysterectomy: March 21st, 2005
Surgery Type: TAH
Ovaries: Removed both
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Fuming, Irritated, Disappointed......
SISTER TELL THE (B) TO GO TO :burning: !
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03-09-2005, 12:11 PM
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Posts: 31
Hysterectomy: March 17th, 2005
Surgery Type: TAH
Ovaries: Removed both
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Fuming, Irritated, Disappointed......
Oh my goodness. I am really trying to bite my tongue. If you DH is going over there to bathe him, why doesnt he clean the bathroom too. Why should both of you make a trip. Or better yet have him call a cleaning service, or even better yet, why doesnt his brother take some of that disability money and use it to find a caregiver who can come to his home and help take care of things like that. Your DH will need to be there for you after your surgery. You are right that you should be relaxing and doing what you need to do before your surgery. As you know you will not be able to just pick up your normal routine once you return home. I will be visiting the castle 2 days after you. You are not being selfish. Don't even do that to yourself. Hugs, Diane
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