Help! I'm 6 days post-op and my dad just had a massive heart attack!

I am sending hugs and prayers your way. I am sorry this is happening to your dad at a time like this. My elderly father became ill during my recovery and he was three hours away. Fortunately, I had other family who were there and I communicated by phone. I won't say that I didn't feel guilty but I did have to turn loose of the situation and realize that I had to take care of myself first. Otherwise, I wouldn't be able eventually to be there for my dad or my son or anyone else who needed me.

You've given me something to think on. I'll let you know what I decide. The doctors just said it will be sometime at the end of the week so I'm having a hard time planning anything since I'm not sure when it is. I would be able to ride up with some of my family and if I'm feeling well I might just do it. I actually cooked breakfast this morning and did the dishes and am waiting to see if it was too much or not. I feel good and nothing is really hurting and I am soooo very thankful.

Kristie

Kristie, just be prepared for one good day, then maybe a bad day or 2. Sometimes it seemslike I am sore a couple of days after overdoing it rather than right away.

I know you will make the best decision for you. I am hoping and praying for the best.