how was your first time back in the "sack"

Ok so the good thing is, I know I'm not having a problem with dryness. Lol. Let's just say I am very randy lately.

I am not allowed to even have an orgasm until 8 weeks. I'm at 3 1/2. I did sneak one though. Oops!

Anyways, I have deep penetration pain. Since my cervix/uterus are gone, will I still have that pain? How was it for you?

My first time after surgery was really good. No pain at all during. Just a little sore and tender afterwards that lasted a day or two. Some minimal pinkish discharge that was gone by mid morning.

It was the first time in a long time that it did not hurt. Now, we were pretty careful, and dh let me totally take the lead, in fact he still does for the most part. And he knows that if I stay stop, we stop. So far though, we have had no issues.

I am almost 11 weeks post op now.

Ok. Good. I cannot wait to have non painful sex! Omg for real, I am sooo excited. Weeeee!!!!!

My boyfriend never really had a really high sex drive but it seems like since I had the surgery, he is wanting it daily!!!! Maybe they cut a pharamone line while in there. Lol!

oh, it is probably the forbidden fruit syndrome. we always want what we can not have! ;-)

I felt the same thing after my surgery...I think its the leftover hormones getting leveled out.

The first time dh and I were so nervous but it was ok... The second time is when the skies opened and I knew my world had forever changed for the better!!! No more pain and no more constant periods to deal with, just go slow the first time and all will be ok

Oh and yea in recovery is when I was very randy LOL!! So ya I agree with the forbidden fruit theory

I have wanted it CONSTANTLY since day 7 .... I am ready but scared all at the same time! I am sure the first time will be awkward for both DH and I...I am a bit nervous!

I think the nerves are normal.

I read an article that sometimes that pain can last up to a year, but doctors don't tell women for fear they'll freak. Better to tell us so we know it WILL go away some day. Don't worry, you are normal.

Ahhh! a women can dream.