I am sorry but......

I am here to vent today and I want to say that I am sorry in advance. I am off work already and have been for 2 weeks. I am soooo tried of hurting. I already miss having sex. I read about all of the things that people are getting done pre-op to get prepared and I try, but then end up crying cause it hurts. I can't wait till my big day. Now I am starting to get worried that something will happen and they change my date of something......waaaaaawaaaaaaaa.
Ok, just had to complain......

Hi Luv, hey what better place to vent! I think most of get involved in the preparation just to take our minds off things, so try not to worry about it all. It is horrible to be hurting so much so why not concentrate on keeping yourself comfortable and making sure you are as healthy - physically and emotionaly - for the big day. Try to relax in the best way that works for you. Best wishes xx

I worried like that too...thought they would change my date or something at the very last possible minute...but they didn't. You don't mention why you are having the hysterectomy but I know that you won't regret having it b/c it will get rid of all of that pain you are experiencing and in a few weeks afterwards, you will really notice a difference in your health and energy levels.

Hang in there! Wishing you a uneventful surgery and recovery.
Mustang30

Mustang30 said it! Had my TVH on the 10th and already feeling like a new woman. Can't wait to get a hold of my DH either. I was worried they would change my date too. Everything will work out! I was vry emotional right before my surg. too. Couldn't wait for it all to be over with. Hang in there!

Thanks girls,
The anser to your question is I had endometrosis. I had a surgery last year for it and a tumor taken out several years ago. This time I have not even had an ultrasound, Dr. just knew me from the last surgery and knew it would come back and the bad pain. We tried all sorts of things but, the pain cont. to grow. I am hoping that is all that he finds. I am not even sure what all comes out. I know He is taking out the 1 overy that I still have and uterous. The rest I wll ask at pre-op oppt. fri.
Thanks for listening.

T

I am so glad you found this site! The Hyster Sisters are wonderful and we all will be here when you need an 'ear' and support!
BIG HUGS!!!!!!!!!

I totally understand and i made the dicision to take mine out too. Stage 4 endo, adhesions everywhere, i was sent to a specialist in Pittsburgh for Lapro hysto because my Ob wouldn't touch me. I am waiting for the appt now. I know there will be issues afterwards but i think i can withstand them after all, i have had this for YEARS. Let me know how yours goes. We are here for you.