TAH Bladder pain and self cath

I have been having some issues with my bladder. I cant empty it all the way. I have to self cath now. It isnt hard to do but the pain when I wake up is alittle more than I bargined for. I dont fault the gyn for this problem. I feel my gyn did all she said she was gonna do. With all the work she did on my bowels and bladder and looking for my ovary I can not fault her in any way. She did an excellent job. I do still have some pain in the right side of my lower abdomen. I cant see my gyn yet as she went on vacation but will see her when she is back in 3 days. I dont want to see anyone but her. But other than that I feel fine. I want to dance in the water puddles with my grandkids and sing everyday. My pathology reports came back with clear margins and no signs of cancer. I have been so happy that I have forgotten to check into the HysterSister site. I am truely sorry. You have been here for me, now it is my turn to be here for those who may need me. I will be more than glad to offter my help anyway I can,. THANK YOU SO SO MUCH.