4months post op poss torn vaginal cuff?

Hi..
I'm wondering if I should be concerned, since none of my doctors seem to be!! Had complete hysterectomy (they took it all!!) with cystele repair 3/4/15. A week later, had emergency surgery to take care of a hematoma with 2 units of blood. Since then, I have pain when my bladder empties--no infection--and pelvic pain. At post-op, my gyn said it was prob nerve regeneration and it will go away. It hasn't gone away and I bleed after intercourse (we waited 9 weeks after surgery to try it out)--not a lot, but enough to wear a pad. Finally got my gyn to see me 3 weeks ago & she said she would discuss with the urogyn who did the cystocele repair. She also said the cuff was prob not healed and she used silver nitrate on it. Plus she referred me to a pelvic wellness center for physical therapy--which my insurance doesn't cover. Next thing I know I am being referred to a urologist. Still bleeding after sex. After waiting 3 weeks to see the urologist, I saw her today. She scheduled me for a cystoscopy to look at the bladder. Another 3 weeks to wait! After my appt. today, which of course included a pelvic exam, I am hurting continuously...like mild menstrual cramps. I don't know if I am being paranoid or if I should push harder for someone to take me seriously! Advice?