Problem with intercourse for first time years after hysterectomy

Hello there (i'm new) I had sex this week for the first time in 4/5 years and my poor "victim" said it was very painful for him!! To me it felt like, I don't know, like a tightness down the middle ... like, you know if your pocket was stitched wrong and everytime you put your hand in your pocket you hit the bit that was stitched wrong in the middle? well, i guess i am not very good at this stuff ...

There was certainly no dryness in that department - very much the opposite! I wasn't nervous or tense or anything ... just sore ... i am very and now worried that I put him off! :/ I googled Vaginismus and vulvodynia but neither of them seen to affect the partner to such an extent that i could see ...

i havent figured out all the codes on here yet but i had a complete hysterectomy, ovaries and all after years of endometriosis, fibriods and adhesions ... I am on Livial/Tibolone for HRT which is in jeopardy too because i had a heart attack almost 5 years ago.

anyway, sorry for rabbiting on too much or if i have given TMI - I did read some other threads before posting in this one but i couldnt see any that caused so much pain to a partner ...

thanks for listening ... xox

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