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To Have or Not to Have (hyst) ?
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03-18-2004, 07:19 AM
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Posts: 580
Hysterectomy: August 4th, 2004
Surgery Type: TVH
Ovaries: Removed both
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To Have or Not to Have (hyst) ?
I was dx'd 01/30/04 with an enlarged uterus (16-week size uterus) and multiple fibroids (largest 6 cm). I bled heavily for 1-1/2 days during my 5-day flow for several months causing mild anemia, but anemia is quickly resolving on iron and my last three periods have been considerably lighter.
I have no pain. I do have a bulging belly (also bulging thighs and legs !! due to a 30-pound weight gain) which makes me feel unattractive. I wonder how much my appearance would improve if I lose extra weight.
Other than symptoms above, I have some urinary frequency, which I've had lifelong as I drink a lot of water, but now it's more frequent, particularly as I lay down in bed getting ready to sleep. I don't consider it super bothersome, but it is definitely there.
These symptoms are measurable, but I do not feel they get in the way of my living life. Before my diagnosis, I simply thought I had a "pot belly" if that gives you any idea how little I felt in the way of symptoms.
Two gyn surgeons have suggested a vaginal hysterectomy, sparing ovaries, and my family doctor agrees, all stating it would be "simple, easy" and solve my problems.
Each day I go back and forth and back and forth. I'm almost 48 and inclined to wait and see until menopause if my body permits. I'm very afraid of surgery, but can reconcile myself to it despite my fears because of a strong faith in God.
Nevertheless, I'm just not convinced that surgery is necessary. I know a vag hyst is easy for the doctors and I see their viewpoint (problems out, their surgery easy, they don't have to experience my recovery or any future complications). From my viewpoint, though, I just can't convince myself it truly is necessary.
I almost wish I had read less than I have. It makes me go around in circles and circles.
How reasonable do you think it is to watch and wait? I'm so tired of trying to decide that it's the *back and forth* of indecision that may drive me insane enough to schedule surgery and that reason doesn't seem like a good reason to me.
I know so many of you feel better after a hyst, but I barely notice they are there; when I do it's usually during my period and I feel more bloated.
What should I do?
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03-18-2004, 07:31 AM
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HysterSister
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Posts: 139
Hysterectomy: March 30th, 2004
Surgery Type: TAH
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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To Have or Not to Have (hyst) ?
It is ultimately your decision. Do what you think is right. I've known about my problems for over 5 years, but it's only been the last year and a half that the pain has gotten to the point where I don't feel like I'm functioning 100% most of the time, and the pain is getting worse over time and I decided I was going to go ahead with the hysterectomy. I know it's confusing when you have so much information out there. However, it's better than going in without knowing possible consequences.
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03-18-2004, 08:47 AM
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HysterSister
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Posts: 174
Hysterectomy: August 4th, 2004
Surgery Type: TAH
Ovaries: Undecided
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To Have or Not to Have (hyst) ?
Hi Meg, It all comes down to what your comfortable living with. And, what you are not willing to or can't live with. Good questions to ask yourself are, do you have any health issues that are affected? Is pain management more of a problem then in the past? I could go on but you have already asked yourself over and over again questions we all ask ourselves.
You are wise not to let yourself be pushed into anything you don't want to do. "Easy", is a matter of opinion, not fact. Even the ladies that have had an excellent recovery with their hyst would I'm sure tell you the same.
The best to you in your endevor to find the answer that is best for YOU.
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