First time....well, first time in a long time!

Well, ladies....last night i surprised dh and turned our cuddling session into our first "real" session!

He was ever so gentle, and nothing hurt a bit, no need for extra lube (guess my patch is doing its thing). I kept waiting for the pain to start, but then remembered that the parts that caused all the pain were not there anymore.

I had a little bit of mucousy pink drainage right after, but not much to speak of this morning. My back is pretty tired and sore, and my belly aches a bit, but nothing worse than if I had taken a long walk.

I can not say it was wild and passionate, but for the first time after so long, who wants that anyway. No earthshattering "O"s, but for hubby and I that is not what sex is all about anyway. It was just lovely though. And so good to connect with dh again this way. I have a feeling things will just get better from here on out.

I am sorry that other sisters have not had a good first time, and do hope that their situations will work out soon.

OH, and a PS... (during our cuddling time, we have figured out how to get me to the big O better than before anyway!) ;-)

To LovetheOcean & my other hyster sisters...

So glad your first time was a good experience. I love the way you described it! I had the same sort of experience. Slow & easy. You do find new ways to connect...LOL! Still 2 day it is that way.

Things for me only got better than before...because what was painful....is now gone!

For you post opr. girls....take your time!
Good things come to those who wait!

I pray for a special return to your time together.