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curious question
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05-14-2012, 06:41 AM
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HysterSister
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Posts: 84
Hysterectomy: May 3rd, 2012
Surgery Type: TAH
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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curious question
My doctor told me nothing in the vagina until my 6 Weeks was up. But my question is what is safe at the the 2 week mark? Honestly I'm curious if my orgasm had changed or not. And my arrousal as of late is kinda high. I feel like a teenager again. Is there anything safe that me and my bf can do or is it still too soon? I hope this hasn't been too much tmi
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05-14-2012, 07:02 AM
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Posts: 16
Hysterectomy: May 2nd, 2012
Surgery Type: TAH
Ovaries: Removed both
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Re: curious question
I had the same curiosity. My libido is clearly returning after 10 days. So yesterday I experimented. I didn't go inside, just a vibrator on the outside. Did achieve orgasm but the spasms really hurt. I say don't try it for a while yet.
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05-14-2012, 07:03 AM
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Posts: 336
Hysterectomy: March 8th, 2012
Surgery Type: LAVH
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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Re: curious question
if you go to hysterectomy checkpoints here on this site this is where you will find what the do's and dont's of each weekly stage of your recovery...its very highly recommended on this site as by many, many doctors to not do anything physical at all for the first 6WKS of post op and truly i would suggest that there be absolutely no sexual conduct of any kind as this just arouses your whole body and if your aroused already you may forget about it and go too far and then you will be in serious pain and possible compliations causing possible repair surgery,,,so try to refrain from any sexual conduct, your body really can wait for that as this is a very serious time for rest and relaxation in allowing your body to properly heal from this serious surgery...so please just take it easy go for walks and get some fresh air, listen to the beauty of nature and be at peace, this will stimulate your body and senses to give it what it needs right now...Peace be with you
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05-14-2012, 08:32 AM
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Posts: 327
Hysterectomy: April 24th, 2012
Surgery Type: LSH
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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Re: curious question
Please do call your doctor and have the conversation with them because none of us know your circumstances, it could be very good news, and it's really interesting to me how widely varying the advice is we're all getting is from different situations and doctors. Here's what I'm up to and what my doctor gave the OK for:
I had a laparoscopic surgery with my cervix and ovaries still intact.
I got the ok to have orgasm whenever I was up to it after surgery but no intercourse or anything in the vagina until the doctor approved. I got the go ahead for intercourse at my 2 week post-op. None the less at week three (tomorrow) I can't even imagine have intercourse just yet. Still feel too crampy and raw, although better all the time.
I tried orgasm alone the day before my 2 week and it felt amazing! Better than ever without a 10" x 6" tumor attached, right? I wanted to test things alone so I could prep hubby, or just have a good cry if it wasn't the same. That would make me less nervous when we were together.
Hubby and I had our first 'date night' last night and kept it to oral. We talked about what we wanted to do beforehand. Again, it was great and he was a happy camper -- very important for doting hubbies. The last spasm of my orgasm was crampy though.
I don't know when I'll be ready for intercourse. It'll happen soon enough if I just keep on protecting my healing now is the way I look at it.
Also check out the other thread in recent posts. One woman tried to have sex at work four, two weeks before she had the ok, and now she's bleeding and not sure why. So please talk to the doc! Good luck!
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05-14-2012, 08:35 AM
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Posts: 327
Hysterectomy: April 24th, 2012
Surgery Type: LSH
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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Re: curious question
Also I experienced something totally new, a flush of warmth (it felt very good) along my abdomen up to my diaphragm about 10 minutes after. Hubby is a nurse practitioner and he said it was a flush of increased blood circulation, "hope it doesn't cause stress and create bleeding" was his worried response. It was fine.
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