I am sad ..

Just want to let you know I'm one of the sisters who are having complications and I can't find anyone who has the exact same complications. I'm possibly facing another surgery but doctor wants to wait. There are times when I don't feel like coming to this site because most of sisters who went into surgery around the same time go on and have a active life. But I'm here sitting at home and unable to go anywhere. I just want to drop you a note to tell you that you are not alone.

My dh stayed home with me the first 2 weeks to help. But once he went back to work he didn't call to check on me at all. One day he was right next door working and didn't even no I was out in the yard trying to pull weeds and rake. When it came home he asked what I did all day and all I could do was point at the bags that had to be put out for thrash. Well 2 weeks later I put them out and what does he say when he sees them. I would have don't that you aren't suppose to pick up heavy things. Dah didn't I show them to him the day I put them out.

Men just can't understand. Sometimes I really think the only brain they have is between their legs.

I posted earlier how great he was too but boy did that change quick. I had only one friend ask to help. And of course my mother in law never called after the day she saw me when I came home from the hospital. I have no family left to speech of so not much help for me.