TAH 8 weeks post op. I'm so tired and spotting after sex

I feel horrible for not coming here more often. We moved to another city and I've been so busy going through all of my stuff. I haven't really done a lot, but I feel like I've worked 12 hour shifts daily for weeks.
My abdomen is still numb, but I knew it would be..Doc says it could take up to 8 months to get the feeling back all around my incision scar...
My hubby and I have only had sex maybe 2 times since my 6 week checkup and I spot afterward...I don't spot any other time.
I did have a bacterial infection that I just took meds and got over too.
My abdomen still has some tender areas and sometimes it's hard to sleep.
I can't take hormones but Dr gave me some Brisdelle to try for hot flashes and mood swings. It worked for me, but my insurance won't cover it. All it is is a lower dose of Paxil...why it works for menopausal symptoms is beyond me, but it does work.
I'm going to see if he can give me a new prescription for the 10 mg of paxil to take because it is on the 4 dollar list at walmart and it's only 2.5 mg more than Brisdelle.

I'm so glad this forum is here. I appreciate all of you.

Call your doctor about the spotting. It is possible you have some unhealed tissue in your cuff.