For sisters who had prolapse repairs too-sex question!

At my 1-week they said absolutely no stimulation, not until and unless the doc clears it at 6 weeks. The nurse said an "O" could put the levator something muscle into a spasm that won't release, and that woman have actually come into the office in tears because of the pain, and that the doc has to release the muscle manually. That scared me plenty, as well as disappointed me. Very different from my hyster, where outercourse was ok at 3 weeks.