the big o and the g spot

hi ladies - i just went to my 4th opinion yesterday (1st &2nd told me nothing was wrong it is "normal" for a woman my age-I'm 26). Anyways she helped me to know yes this is a needed surgery and some more of my concerns but now i have more. o.k. some women have women have internal O's and some do not. I can. Both docs say cervix does not play a role in that, that if you are hitting the cervix it is painfull. So .... where does it come from? is it from the G spot? and what exactly is the G spot? Yeah it is a spot on the vaginal wall that feels a little like a sponge but still i don't get it. and when you have a lavh does that get touched? I just came up with this thought this morning and i guess i am just a little confused. at this moment i am becoming more o.k. with taking out the cervix (I have a history of cancer in my family) but we will see how i feel in the next 5 min.

thanks for letting me ramble on. If anyone can explane it better to me i would love it.

younggal

Isn't it great to have a place to discuss these kinds of personal issues? I'm no expert but I can tell you my experience. I've never gone hunting for my g-spot but it feels like it is slightly above the clitoris, just on the other side of the "wall" so to speak.

Before my surgery, my cervix definitely got the in the way. DH couldn't always find a comfortable position and when he banged into it, it did hurt.

Since I've had my cervic removed there seems to be more depth to move around in which makes it more comfortable for both of us. The hormones might have something to do with it but my sex drive and enjoyment are a lot better than they have been in years. I'm 49 and feel 26 again. I've had more 's in the last few months than I had for a long time before the Big H.

Hope you experience the same.