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Pre-Op done, Interesting things learned.
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10-25-2012, 07:14 PM
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Posts: 243
Hysterectomy: November 14th, 2012
Surgery Type: TAH/SAH
Ovaries: Removed both
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Pre-Op done, Interesting things learned.
Thanks to all of you ladies I went prepared with a whole list of questions and my husband as a second pair of ears for my flustered brain.
Soooo yes I am having everything plus my cervix out. I will be getting staples since I heal fast, I won't have to do a bowel prep (WOO HOO!) The catheter stays in for the first 24 hours.
That all being said.
I was told no abdominal binder, it weakens the stomach muscles.
I was also told no ice on the belly. That it would slow healing and possibly lead to infection. Heat is not as bad but not necessary.
My doctor/surgeon is also bringing in a cancer specialist to assist him with the surgery since endo acts a lot like cancer. I was really happy to hear this and feel a lot better about it now, not because I didn't trust my doctor to get the job done, but because two great sets of eyes are better then one.
Oh and I am getting an epidural so I don't have to be put under as deep and I won't be in as much pain when I wake up.
Whew...
he also asked me over and over if I was sure. I asked him about all the claims that say a Hyst doesn't cure endo and he said it is 98% effective if you get rid of all the implants, the ovaries, and don't go on estrogen for 6-9 months. There is always a risk that he may miss something and it may come back....but letting it destroy any more of my organs is more of a risk.
I am still not really...ready for this, I wish I was more confident. I know it needs to be done but....ugh this is silly, I am 34 years old. I have two children, my husband got a vasectomy, so I shouldn't be worried at all. I was trying to pinpoint why I feel so....weird about this. I think it's because it's not natural you know? It doesn't follow the natural progression of how a life is supposed to go.
I dated in highschool, met my husband in college, he was my first for pretty much everything, we moved in together, got married, had kids, now we are supposed to raise our kids and when I am in my 50s or so go through menopause, while my babies have babies of their own. This whole...menopause at 34, it's just...ya know....weird.
Am I making any sense? LOL
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10-25-2012, 07:27 PM
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HysterSister
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Posts: 948
Hysterectomy: July 12th, 2012
Surgery Type: TAH
Ovaries: Removed both
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Re: Pre-Op done, Interesting things learned.
I understand some. Whenever women start talking hormones, I always want to know how old they are. It's a much trickier issue for younger women.
Glad you got some answers and I hope all goes well for you.
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10-25-2012, 07:39 PM
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HysterSister
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Posts: 960
Hysterectomy: October 8th, 2012
Surgery Type: DvH
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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Re: Pre-Op done, Interesting things learned.
Sounds like your Dr is being straight foward with and is trying to help lead you to a much better quality of life. I can't say anything about hormones as I kep my ovaries. However it seems that no matter the reason we all are here, this surgery is a difficult 1 to swallow. It is an emotional surgery, it is not the same as a gallbladder attack. As women we tend to be kinda attached to our uterus.
One little hint for post-op, I suggested heat to a ladt that had a TAH, with staples and she declined heat because it makes the staples hot. I never thought about that and maybe it depends on the person, but I wouldn't want to find out the hard way
Good Luck to you....see you on the otherside soon. Hugs
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10-25-2012, 07:42 PM
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Posts: 243
Hysterectomy: November 14th, 2012
Surgery Type: TAH/SAH
Ovaries: Removed both
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Re: Endometriosis, uterus out, now have to have ovaries out
After my pre op today, I think I know why I'm scared. I don't know how this will change me physically and emotionally...and there is no turning back. When I was on Danazol I went through menopause, but if thinks got wonky all I had to do was stop taking the danazol and poof..normal again....there is no normal for this....there is no going back once it is done it's done...that is terrifying. Huh, look at me go...I made a little breakthrough! Think I just need to keep reading and really delving into my feelings and writing before I come to a strong conclusion on why I am so worried.
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10-25-2012, 07:46 PM
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Posts: 17,510
Hysterectomy: May 17th, 2011
Surgery Type: TAH
Ovaries: Removed both
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Re: Pre-Op done, Interesting things learned.
I know this is a difficult choice, but it sounds as if you have discussed it with your doctor and it is bet best solution given the circumstances. I don't think any of us wanted a hysterectomy. I know I sure didn't - I several times before my surgery and many more times after. I am still working through some of the feelings and emotions - it has been 18 months.
You are not alone! You are loosing something that has made its presence known to you, for better or worse, for decades. It is hard to let go of this. It does not matter that you don't want any more kids. Your feelings are very normal. Digesting this surgery is a process that can extend beyond the surgery itself. We will be here by your side throughout.
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10-25-2012, 07:47 PM
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Posts: 243
Hysterectomy: November 14th, 2012
Surgery Type: TAH/SAH
Ovaries: Removed both
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Re: Pre-Op done, Interesting things learned.
Ohhh heat on staples, I totally didn't think about that, yeah...that could suck. LOL
And yes...attached, very attached. I also have this nightmare about getting it all taken out and standing up and having my insides just fall right out. LOL I asked him about that...he said not to worry, it's all attached hehehe.
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10-25-2012, 07:51 PM
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Posts: 243
Hysterectomy: November 14th, 2012
Surgery Type: TAH/SAH
Ovaries: Removed both
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Re: Pre-Op done, Interesting things learned.
Thank you....awe shoot, I'm tearing up. My friends and family have been good about it, understanding, supportive...but not really "by my side". It's nice to know someone is here who gets it...
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10-25-2012, 08:05 PM
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Posts: 36,890
Hysterectomy: November 14th, 2000
Surgery Type: LAVH
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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Re: Pre-Op done, Interesting things learned.
I am glad your appointment went well! That is great news!
Can you ask him for the references for those stats? I would be interested in seeing them since that is not what my doctors shared nor have I come across those stats in any of my research over the years.
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There is always a risk that he may miss something and it may come back....
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Were you able to find out if the surgeons are going to be able to check for and address any bladder endometriosis inside and outside your bladder? Hopefully the cancer surgeon will be able to help make sure as much as possible, aside from any that is on the bowel since you aren't having a prep, will be removed.
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I am still not really...ready for this, I wish I was more confident.
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This is just my opinion, of course, but if you have doubts you should consider postponing. This surgery cannot be undone and is not a risk free one. Thus, if things don't turn out as planned and you had doubts, you could end up with a lot of regrets and anger with yourself. My hysterectomy didn't turn out as any of us expected and it would have been especially discouraging and depressing if were not sure I had made the right decision for me.
To help you decide if the time is right, why don't you make a list of how your life is being impacted by your current symptoms and which ones will be addressed by the surgery. Also, go over the risks and rewards so to speak and make sure the pros outweigh the cons for you.
This isn't easy and it especially isn't for those of us who are younger. Thus, it makes perfect sense to have fears and concerns as this isn't a typical surgery for someone our age. In general, our peers are not in this same boat, have no clue what to tell us, and thus we can feel alone.
But, you aren't! HysterSisters is filled with wonderful women who care and who are ready to cheer you on if you head to OR, or even hold your hand if you decide the time is not right. They will laugh with you, cry with you, answer your questions, and understand you in a very connecting way!
So in there during these final days and know we are here for you!
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10-25-2012, 08:06 PM
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HysterSister
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Posts: 948
Hysterectomy: July 12th, 2012
Surgery Type: TAH
Ovaries: Removed both
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Re: Pre-Op done, Interesting things learned.
I did use a heating pad early in my recovery - even in the hospital. I don't remember any problem with the staples getting too hot. Also, the heating pad is good on your back.
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10-25-2012, 08:11 PM
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Posts: 291
Hysterectomy: September 19th, 2012
Surgery Type: LAVH
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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Re: Pre-Op done, Interesting things learned.
I found ice packs to be quite useful. I couldn't have gotten through without them. Also I woke up in the recovery room with one on my belly. Very soothing. Every Dr is different though.
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